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 Jan 15 2008, 10:45 PM
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D: It's been a month since my bf and I have been together, but a couple of months since we became friends. We never were that close of friends, but we did talk sometimes and hung out, etc.
But now, like, I realized there are a lot of awkward silences when we're together. Because we've been together a lot more now. But the silences are killing me. When we're together, yes, I feel comfortable with him, but even then our conversations are dead. I mean once we spark it up, it's great, but then later it dies and it we end up filling the awkward silence with sooooo's and anyyyyway's, and that goes nowhere, really. Gah. Really, and our conversations on AIM die extremely quick. I know we have a lot in common, and yeah, but for some reason, it just does. Lol. Gahh. Help? D: I mean I know he plays a part in this, so I don't wanna be the one blabbering on and on and annoy him. Soo, errr. Grr. Haha. |
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Jan 19 2008, 09:55 AM
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i bet u i got mo gamee den u FOO!!
i can get gurlz without tryin 2 foo!! |
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Jan 19 2008, 01:56 PM
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QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Jan 19 2008, 10:55 AM)  i bet u i got mo gamee den u FOO!! i can get gurlz without tryin 2 foo!! what are we in, grade school? and please, can you spell correctly? anyway, i would suggest that you guys grab some food, go out somewhere busy and just people-watch. you can start conversation and whenever it seems to die down, find some ridiculously obscure-looking person and point it out, talk about it... don't talk trash, but it can't be so bad to find something weird to talk about right? :/ good luckk |
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Jan 19 2008, 01:58 PM
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QUOTE(sparrowdust @ Jan 19 2008, 01:56 PM) what are we in, grade school? and please, can you spell correctly? anyway, i would suggest that you guys grab some food, go out somewhere busy and just people-watch. you can start conversation and whenever it seems to die down, find some ridiculously obscure-looking person and point it out, talk about it... don't talk trash, but it can't be so bad to find something weird to talk about right? :/ good luckk LMAO!!!! wat happen wen tha no obscure lookin person around../ |
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twilightsamurai uhhh. awkward silences. Jan 15 2008, 10:45 PM
Synesthesia Try discussing something that you don't have i... Jan 15 2008, 10:47 PM
yrrnotelekktric QUOTE(Synesthesia @ Jan 15 2008, 07:47 PM... Jan 16 2008, 01:59 AM doiink start quizzing him on the cliche stuff: food, colo... Jan 15 2008, 11:02 PM Excel ^^Agreed, most GREAT relationships are based on a ... Jan 15 2008, 11:11 PM twilightsamurai ^ Yeah, that's actually probably what I'm ... Jan 15 2008, 11:16 PM tininja Ahh, Toby, I know how that feels. We're not to... Jan 15 2008, 11:34 PM Elba If you guys have awkward silences when you're ... Jan 15 2008, 11:57 PM doiink ^ I don't think they're quite at that sort... Jan 16 2008, 12:48 AM resplendence Did you know, on average, an awkward silence occur... Jan 16 2008, 01:28 AM tungmyBANANA You're finally dating that guy who's like ... Jan 16 2008, 01:30 AM The Markster QUOTE(tungmyBANANA @ Jan 15 2008, 10:30 P... Jan 16 2008, 02:30 AM Castaway be more random, make out during those silences Jan 16 2008, 02:19 AM nguoicasison when tha silence.. mean u guyz ovaa da crush/love.... Jan 16 2008, 02:54 AM doiink THERE ARE THESE THINGS CALLED THE LETTERS "E,... Jan 16 2008, 03:02 AM yrrnotelekktric QUOTE(doiink @ Jan 16 2008, 12:02 AM) THE... Jan 16 2008, 03:43 AM twilightsamurai ^
HI TINA, HI MARK, HI TUNG. :D
Lmfao, actuall... Jan 16 2008, 03:07 AM The Markster QUOTE(twilightsamurai @ Jan 16 2008, 12:0... Jan 16 2008, 03:12 AM tungmyBANANA Mark, Betty, Toby 3 some action?
Tung director o... Jan 16 2008, 03:14 AM nguoicasison endd of STFFUUU!!!
nicckaaaa plzz.. Jan 16 2008, 03:46 AM BrandonSaunders QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Jan 16 2008, 02:46 A... Jan 18 2008, 12:15 AM tininja HI TOBY!
Yay for him being random! Jan 16 2008, 11:29 PM doiink and by get gurlz you mean get gurlz to hurlz. Jan 19 2008, 12:18 PM nguoicasison LMAO!! wtf withh all da gurlzz on here phu... Jan 19 2008, 01:40 PM sparrowdust i'll call you. Jan 19 2008, 02:02 PM nguoicasison OoO shiet..!!
2 bad i'll be with u... Jan 19 2008, 02:10 PM OhSoDanny you could try asking a lot of questions, but that ... Jan 19 2008, 02:15 PM Joss-eh-lime "awkward" silences happen all the time w... Jan 20 2008, 01:09 AM DeadlyKitten awkward silences happen. wait it out. try to find ... Jan 20 2008, 01:17 AM Joss-eh-lime QUOTE(DeadlyKitten @ Jan 19 2008, 10:17 P... Jan 21 2008, 08:38 PM JaseB just give each other space i guess
the more you... Jan 21 2008, 08:14 PM Bishinobi Just stare at him.
You'll eventually make out.... Jan 21 2008, 08:20 PM doiink QUOTE(Bishinobi @ Jan 21 2008, 05:20 PM) ... Jan 21 2008, 09:04 PM tungmyBANANA I really think you two should break up if this is ... Jan 25 2008, 06:27 PM twilightsamurai QUOTE(tungmyBANANA @ Jan 25 2008, 03:27 P... Jan 26 2008, 03:54 AM JCLore just tell him "this always happens, theres al... Jan 25 2008, 08:59 PM Joss-eh-lime ^are you for real?
say it as if you are tipsy.
n... Jan 26 2008, 03:06 AM JCLore no miss
sorry miss
Edit: how bout if your really ... Jan 26 2008, 03:08 AM libertie I usually am the cause of awkward silences.
In a... Jan 26 2008, 03:11 AM JCLore ^Yay
see i knew dealing with it up front would w... Jan 26 2008, 04:24 AM |
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