Frienemy Options

[MissFits]

I have this friend that I have known for 13 years. We used to be best friends but for a while I have known that I can't stand her. She comes to hang out but all she does is flirt with my guy friends and my fiance. She always tries to one up me. She brings people I she knows I don't like over to my house ALL THE TIME. Everything she does irks me, but most of all I HATE it when she tells me what she is going to do. It wouldn't bother me if it was something I wanted to do.
She will be outside MY house and tell me "We are coming in" "we are going to eat" "I'm using your shower" "I'm borrowing this", or she will be in MY car tell me "We are going to the mall". BITCH, THIS IS MY SHIT I CALL THE SHOTS AND IF YOU DON'T LIKE IT GO THE FUCK HOME.

I want a polite way to tell her that if she asks I might not hate her so much, but I don't even have the heart to tell her I hate her since I am one of her only friends.

Is there something your friends do that you can't stand, or a friend you hate to be around?

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[JCLore]

i think you should tell her you need a break in your relationship
tell her you want to meet new ppl on your own
even if it is a lie

i dislike my younger brother sometimes
i went to youth group the other week and he stuck to me like glue
i was like "hello i am with my friends, go away"
his only freind is our next door neighbor
i suggest finding someone else his age but he doesnt listen to me
i have enough trouble making/keeping friends as it is
im a bit angry coz he might want to go tonight
and i really dont want him to