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post Jan 7 2008, 05:42 PM
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My life is so disorganized right now what the hell am I going to do. I feel as though I have lost my complete being of what I used to be and now I am not sure what to do. I lost my great sense of fashion, my edge that I used to have, and among other things I just feel like a loser. I feel as though I have been in the same position for the past two years and have nothing to look forward to other than becoming a firefighter. I usually don't do things like this, but this weekend really had me thinking and I am so unsure of myself that I don't even know what to do anymore. I am hoping that somebody that has felt the same way before can give me some advice or something of that nature. ANY thoughts negative and positive would help.
 
 
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post Jan 7 2008, 08:26 PM
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QUOTE(DoubleJ @ Jan 7 2008, 07:42 PM) *
My life is so disorganized right now what the hell am I going to do. I feel as though I have lost my complete being of what I used to be and now I am not sure what to do. I lost my great sense of fashion, my edge that I used to have, and among other things I just feel like a loser. I feel as though I have been in the same position for the past two years and have nothing to look forward to other than becoming a firefighter. I usually don't do things like this, but this weekend really had me thinking and I am so unsure of myself that I don't even know what to do anymore. I am hoping that somebody that has felt the same way before can give me some advice or something of that nature. ANY thoughts negative and positive would help.


I feel this way sometimes. It comes and goes but it usually happens when I have a job I hate. You have to be happy in your work to be happy in your life.

A friend of mine just sent me a message that said almost the same thing you said. He decided to go back to college for astrology rather than engineering. He realizes he will probably make less money but he would rather love his job. Maybe you need to do something like that
 
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post Jan 7 2008, 10:42 PM
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QUOTE(MissFits @ Jan 7 2008, 08:26 PM) *
I feel this way sometimes. It comes and goes but it usually happens when I have a job I hate. You have to be happy in your work to be happy in your life.

A friend of mine just sent me a message that said almost the same thing you said. He decided to go back to college for astrology rather than engineering. He realizes he will probably make less money but he would rather love his job. Maybe you need to do something like that


Yeah I am actually going to major in news reporting with a minor in fire science for the fire department. Two fields that I would love to get into.

^^ I totally feel you with the school thing but it seems like I just feel so low and I literally just sit around sulking. I have been this way for about two or three years now. I almost have nervous breakdowns daily because of it. I'll break out in cold sweats and not eat for a few days and just different things. I used to have all the answers and I used to be as tough as they come, but somewhere along the way, I lost it all. It is definitely a struggle to try and gain it back.
 

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DoubleJ   Wow this is usually not me, but hey what the hell.   Jan 7 2008, 05:42 PM
Excel   I was like that last year. I didn't have a job...   Jan 7 2008, 05:47 PM
DoubleJ   QUOTE(Excel @ Jan 7 2008, 05:47 PM) I was...   Jan 7 2008, 05:53 PM
MissHygienic   Seems as though you're going through a quarter...   Jan 7 2008, 08:18 PM
MissFits   QUOTE(DoubleJ @ Jan 7 2008, 07:42 PM) My ...   Jan 7 2008, 08:26 PM
DoubleJ   QUOTE(MissFits @ Jan 7 2008, 08:26 PM) I ...   Jan 7 2008, 10:42 PM
RealTalk   I felt like that last year. When I screwed up my ...   Jan 7 2008, 10:45 PM
LoveToMySilas   Wow. Thats gotta be tough. I'm sorry to hear t...   Jan 7 2008, 10:46 PM
DoubleJ   ^^Yeah my ultimate goal is to be a firefighter. It...   Jan 8 2008, 03:00 AM
Tungster   things may seen bad right now, but eventually life...   Apr 9 2008, 02:29 AM
DoubleJ   Yeah I definitely feel you on that one. Things are...   Apr 9 2008, 12:46 PM
Tamacracker   It's good that you stopped caring about fashio...   Apr 9 2008, 01:33 PM
DoubleJ   Tama you make very good points. I have been trying...   Apr 9 2008, 02:02 PM
Tamacracker   QUOTE(DoubleJ @ Apr 9 2008, 03:02 PM) Tam...   Apr 9 2008, 02:09 PM
DoubleJ   Exactly true. I have lost interest in a lot of the...   Apr 9 2008, 03:00 PM
Tamacracker   QUOTE(DoubleJ @ Apr 9 2008, 04:00 PM) Exa...   Apr 9 2008, 03:03 PM
DoubleJ   Yes, and it is still an ongoing realization as wel...   Apr 9 2008, 03:05 PM
Tamacracker   QUOTE(DoubleJ @ Apr 9 2008, 04:05 PM) Yes...   Apr 9 2008, 03:08 PM
karmakiller   I'm stuck in one of those spots. But I think t...   Apr 9 2008, 03:33 PM
DoubleJ   We all must got through this stage to get to the n...   Apr 9 2008, 04:15 PM


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