Wow this is usually not me, but hey what the hell., Honest J! Options

[DoubleJ]

My life is so disorganized right now what the hell am I going to do. I feel as though I have lost my complete being of what I used to be and now I am not sure what to do. I lost my great sense of fashion, my edge that I used to have, and among other things I just feel like a loser. I feel as though I have been in the same position for the past two years and have nothing to look forward to other than becoming a firefighter. I usually don't do things like this, but this weekend really had me thinking and I am so unsure of myself that I don't even know what to do anymore. I am hoping that somebody that has felt the same way before can give me some advice or something of that nature. ANY thoughts negative and positive would help.

[MissHygienic]

Seems as though you're going through a quarter-life crisis. I had the same thoughts as you do when I was 18, and I had no idea how to balance my priorities. I went to a university in the East coast, and I ended up dropping out after my freshman year because I decided that college wasn't going to get me anywhere I wanted to do in my life. It was probably one of the best decisions I've made, albeit everyone thinks I'm an idiot for doing so. I've severed ties with a lot of my family and so-called friends; I'm planning to move in with my boyfriend after he finishes college. I basically can't talk to anyone but him. So on and so forth, it's been nearly two years since my decision, and I can say that I'm definitely a happier person.

So, the only advice I could possibly give you is to stick with it and do things. This is going to sound incredibly cheesy, but "follow your gut," is the best thing I can tell you. Don't succumb to other people's notion of what's good for you. Do what you think is the best for yourself. I don't know what's going on in your life, so that's the best general response I can give.