Boyfriend. Options

[preciousbabyrae]

Hm, okay so my boyfriend and I had been together for 3 months now. He's a very good kid and whatnot. But yeah, he's never touched me to where I felt uncomfortable and whatnot. Well so, on monday was the first time i saw him in a week (because of winter break for school) and i hung out with him. I gave him a hello hug and he hugged but like his hands was on my butt. He's never done that before until that moment. So then later on that day, he was touching it everytime we hugged and yeah. Soo, what does that mean? What might be going on in his head?

[AskAlice]

Really, butt-touching isn't that big of a deal. That doesn't necessarily mean he wants sex. There's a big jump from touching your butt to sex. Because it isn't really a debate most of the time, he may not know what's on your mind about it.

Why do you feel so uncomfortable about it? Evaluate that first before you talk to him. He may feel like you don't trust him if you just come out with the subject. He may feel at fault, when really, he doesn't know what the boundaries are.