I am in a relationship but I still love my EX who is not good for me!, Confused Options

[freakygurl811]

Hi There!

I am currently so down and confused in the situation I am tight now. So lets get started with the cause of my confusion.

I am German but lived in the Philippines for the past 14 years. While I was there I met a guy who is a DJ by profession. The first time I saw him I immediatley liked him, but he didn't because he had already a finace that was in another country. Our raltionship started like a fling, but we were good friends though. More like a "Pseudo relationship" until one day my feelings grew stronger and stronger for him and I made him choose between me and his fiance. Gladly he chose me and we moved-in in one house and stayed there together for 8 months. I was the one providing all his financial needs, food, clothes, cellphone just everything because he stopped working. I realized that this man is no good for my future because aside from he's not working he is also a real Gangster!

Now, Before I met this DJ I already met a Algerian guy in the internet and we also fell in love with each other though we havn't met personally. But when I met the DJ I forgot about the Algerian, since the DJ was half Philipino half Algerian too. (what a coincedence. lol)
I always promised the Algerian guy that once I am in Germany I am gonna visit him.

When I arrived here in Germany 7 months ago, my relationship was already on the rocks with the DJ. And I started chatting again with the Algerian guy, because I really needed to forget the DJ eventhough I still love him.

My feelings for the Algerian guy came back. So I went to Algeria to meet him personally. Everything was so fine and we love each other. Therefore, I broke up with the DJ.

Everyday he has been trying to contact me but I had to ignore him. But time to time I would still call him just to ask if he was doing good.

Until our communication ended for almost one month, until I received a text message from him saying that he wants me back and that he misses me. The next day I saw him performing live in youtube...and wow my feeling for him came all of a sudden back. I called him and we both cried on the phone.

After our conversation, I said to my self No! I can't continue my relationship with him because I plan to marry this Algerian guy soon. The next day I saw in a intersite pictures of him and another girl sweet together. It broke my heart and I've been crying all night eversince.

My feelings are like this...

I like the Algerian guy but I dont love him that much.

I love the DJ but I totally dislike him.

I hope you guys could help me because I am totally down.

[MissFits]

Like everyone else says you don't love either of them.

WHATEVER YOU DO DO NOT MARRY THAT MAN.