to break up with boyfriend?, or to not? Options

[juliette]

Hi, I hope everyone will be patient and read this because I seriously don't know what to do. I've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years and everything was alright except lately it has just been very dull but I didn't necessarily lost my feelings for him. He doesn't go to my school (we're in high school) and I only see him probably 2x a week.
Last week, I met another guy from my school outside of school, just to hang out. (I knew him since 2 years ago). And it was cool, and I thought I was starting to have feelings for him. After a while, he told me he liked me and he kissed me.
So now..I am debating whether to break up with my boyfriend or not. I was really going to but when we discussed it I started crying. I don't plan on telling him about the part where I cheated. He told me that it was my choice if I wanted to. He's really sweet and funny. And I'm scared that I will regret it. But at the same time I don't feel like I deserve him anymore since..yeah. If I do break up with him, I plan on staying single.
Thanks...

[ArtofBreaking]

This exact same situation happened to me in a previous relationship, I was the guy in this case. It's not a good feeling to have knowing something is going on with your GF that you don't know about, regardless whether he says "It's okay take you're time" or "WTF tell me now." Guarentee he's thinking about it and it's probably eating at him.

The best thing you can do is tell him what you did, instead of causing possible extensive pain in the future. Which if you continue keeping it a secret, will happen.

Yeah,
PcE