How to ask a girl out? Options

[Call911Quick]

1.) When? Like after a couple dates, or right off the bat after the first date, etc.

2.) How? Go for the subtle "I need to talk to you", walk through the park, or casual, "Hey, you wanna go out with me?" etc.

Ideas please? I'm new to this.

Edit: Say I just hang out with a girl. If I have lunch with her, how do I let her know I want it as a date and not just hanging out? Because I can call a bunch of girls to go eat lunch and they'd be fine with it, because they know I'm not interested.

[rosemary27]

1.) When? Like after a couple dates, or right off the bat after the first date, etc.

2.) How? Go for the subtle "I need to talk to you", walk through the park, or casual, "Hey, you wanna go out with me?" etc.

Ideas please? I'm new to this.

Edit: Say I just hang out with a girl. If I have lunch with her, how do I let her know I want it as a date and not just hanging out? Because I can call a bunch of girls to go eat lunch and they'd be fine with it, because they know I'm not interested.

okay here is advice from a girl.


i usually say this to my guy freinds "Get off your lazy ballz and ask the girl out"

"if she turns you down then she dont know what she is missin."


Most girls are old fashion...they expect the guy to ask them out...n if you take forever becuz you are nervous..someone else is gona ask that girl out. "Have some courage...arent you a man...if you are then start acting like one"


and if you take a girl out to lunch, she would probably know, unless she is a dumbass...which happens sometimes...of course if your really good freinds with someone like bff...and you guys go out for lunch they think its because you are freinds...so them if you want more ask her out...n if she dont like you that way...move on its not the end of the world. there are alot of girls that you will like.


haha sry if i was alil rough