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should i.., should i wait.. or give up
MisSyHangy
post Jun 19 2004, 06:54 AM
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.. i knoe this can be really stupid. but deep in my heart i still have
my ex in my heart.. its been 7 months since he broke up with me.
we were together for a year and a month...to this day. i still dont
knoe why he broke up with me. i told him that ill wait for him.
...faith happened so many times between us.. we loved each other
so much.. our family accepted each other.. approve and stuff like that,
you knoe the asian way...

i remember that day he broke up with me.. he was cry'n. :sigh:
..well i just want to knoe.. should i just give up.. or just wait and
maybe get nothing out of it.
 
 
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Winter
post Jun 19 2004, 07:11 AM
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It's not wrong to have hope. Hope is what keeps us going. It seems he loved/liked you as much as you loved/liked when he broke up with you. You don't just need love to make a relationship work, you need other stuff too. Maybe he broke up with you because of a personal reason.

And is he still single? This is a main question.

I was very much like you some time back. I was with the one I love for only 4 short months but those 4 months were the happiest months of my entire life. We broke up... not because we stopped loving each other, but because of other issues.

After the break-up, I felt lose. I knew there wasn't much chance that we'd be together again. But I kept hoping. I hoped that maybe one day, things would work between us.

But after a while, I realised that just hoping alone isn't going to help. You just have to move on. Life has to go on like usual. And I decided to move on. I met Chris (asiangetokewl) and we got together.

To be honest, I still miss my ex. But now I just keep him locked up in my heart. He will always be special to me, he was my first love and I will always remember that.

But you gotta realise it's over. I'm with Chris now and for now, Chris is my no.1 guy.
 

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