Confused about him., Ex-boyfriend, feelings Options

[Lame-o]

My ex-boyfriend was in an accident on Boxing day (the day after Christmas), it has brought up some feelings we both thought were gone.

The reason we split up was because the relationship was moving along too fast.

We both know that right now is not the best time for a relationship because of the accident. (His mum was killed)

But to know I could have lost him forever :(
Thank god I didn't.

Opinions?

[MissHygienic]

I think you're just in that elated stage in which you hypothesize that you could have lost him, but you didn't and you're thankful of that, but he may or may not be the best choice for a relationship again. I don't know how you would rationalize that you split-up because you were going too fast. That makes absolutely no sense to me, but however you choose it.

Try to be careful next time. But right now, don't push your feelings onto him. *That* would be going too fast, and it'd make you look insensitive toward his situation right now.