when ppl call u a "fob" or a "twinkie" do they have intentions to offend u? Options

[JerzDevil]

to all the asians (mostly koreans) you know what I be talkin about ... when they say that, are they being honest or rude? the problem i've witnessed was that some ppl go around callin korean guys/girls fob when they're not even one ..... cuz ...

1) you have to be born in korea to be fob here in america.

they were born in america. so that automatically dosen't make them fob even if they damn looked like one (which idk how they look, how the hell do you guys tell??) ... correct me if i'm wrong please.

same goes with twinkies but kind of a different story here. i've seen hell of a lot of koreans here dressing preppy clothing but that can't make them twinkie ... their sense. their preference of clothing. and i'm sure they can't act "white" ... who agrees with me? any objections? plz be honest, i'm not trying to hate, complain, or moan or any of that shit like i did long time ago. i just feel like this is sort of a problem and i wanna know/resolve.

[MrStrife]

Can't take everything to the heart or up the azz. If they hate, let them. Don't have to stoop to a lower level like them just because they're ignorant. You are who you are and that's better than going around trying to impress people all the time. But you can't be a bitch either. As for "twinkies", imo they're suburban cats who forgot where they came from. Tell me something's not wrong when old folks converse with youngings in native tongue and they talk back in English and you see the same ones not even take their shoes off in the house. Tell me not, that culture isn't being killed and replaced with today's vain fads. It's sad to see how money changes people but it is what it is, like they say. Well that's what I see because I'm from a city full of azn pride and have to keep it on that status. EDITED.

[jaeman]

Can't take everything to the heart or up the azz. If they hate, let them. Don't have to stoop to a lower level like them just because they're ignorant. But you can't be a bitch either. As for "twinkies", imo they're suburban cats who forgot where they came from. Tell me something's not wrong when old folks converse with youngings in native tongue and they talk back in English and you see the same ones not even take their shoes off in the house. Tell me not, that culture isn't being killed and replaced with today's vain fads. That's what I see because I'm from a city full of azn pride and have to keep it on that status.

I'm a bit of both, I'm in the middle, I guess you could say. It's so weird, I can speak perfect english and it sounds like I wasn't even Asian anyway. Then I can switch back and speak my native language fluently, I can understand fluently too, obviously.

See, diba? Marunong pa ako mag tagalog, Pilipino ako! Pero, pag yung mga kababayan ko ng sumasalita sa akin, tinatagalog ko sila. Hindi ako ng eenglish sa Pilipinas. Pasensya na, hindi ako marunong sa spelling ng tagalog words, eh.