when ppl call u a "fob" or a "twinkie" do they have intentions to offend u? Options

[JerzDevil]

to all the asians (mostly koreans) you know what I be talkin about ... when they say that, are they being honest or rude? the problem i've witnessed was that some ppl go around callin korean guys/girls fob when they're not even one ..... cuz ...

1) you have to be born in korea to be fob here in america.

they were born in america. so that automatically dosen't make them fob even if they damn looked like one (which idk how they look, how the hell do you guys tell??) ... correct me if i'm wrong please.

same goes with twinkies but kind of a different story here. i've seen hell of a lot of koreans here dressing preppy clothing but that can't make them twinkie ... their sense. their preference of clothing. and i'm sure they can't act "white" ... who agrees with me? any objections? plz be honest, i'm not trying to hate, complain, or moan or any of that shit like i did long time ago. i just feel like this is sort of a problem and i wanna know/resolve.

[transcendentalis...]

um, just because you're korean doesn't mean... anything. it happens to practically all asians who don't act 'americanized.'

most people i know don't call people fobs or twinkies to be honest OR rude - it's not a derogatory term unless you put it in that context. it might just be the people i hang around, but when people get called fobs directly to their faces, it's usually accompanied with affection.

everything is not korea, korea is not everything. geez.
if you're asian, born overseas, and end up here, that makes you a "fob." the term "fob" is rarely applied to brown people or europeans.

to tell the difference between fobs and american-born.. that just takes practice. it's usually the style of dress and random mannerisms.

i don't get why this is a problem..