when ppl call u a "fob" or a "twinkie" do they have intentions to offend u? Options

[JerzDevil]

to all the asians (mostly koreans) you know what I be talkin about ... when they say that, are they being honest or rude? the problem i've witnessed was that some ppl go around callin korean guys/girls fob when they're not even one ..... cuz ...

1) you have to be born in korea to be fob here in america.

they were born in america. so that automatically dosen't make them fob even if they damn looked like one (which idk how they look, how the hell do you guys tell??) ... correct me if i'm wrong please.

same goes with twinkies but kind of a different story here. i've seen hell of a lot of koreans here dressing preppy clothing but that can't make them twinkie ... their sense. their preference of clothing. and i'm sure they can't act "white" ... who agrees with me? any objections? plz be honest, i'm not trying to hate, complain, or moan or any of that shit like i did long time ago. i just feel like this is sort of a problem and i wanna know/resolve.

[Melissa]

When people call me a "twinkie," it's usually just kidding around and really, I don't have any objections. I was born and raised in the U.S. and am just as "white" as my friends and neighbors with the exception of celebrating certain things (like Chinese New Years), having the stereotypical "asian" parents, and speaking Chinese. Compared to my friends from Asia, I consider myself very white-washed.

And most people don't call Asians or Indians "fobs" unless they have an accent to go with it.

Seriously though, it's not an issue to stress over.