Friends into clubbing, I'm not Options

[Call911Quick]

At school or when just hanging out, my friends and I get along great and we have tons of fun. We go fishing, paintballing, watch movies, etc. You know, normal healthy teen activities.

However, some of my friends are real party people. I love hanging out with them normally, but I'm just not into the whole drunk orgy thing, you know? I just don't find it fun. For me, I get the nasty side effects (nausea, sleepiness, etc.) before the good ones (all the girls become beautiful). I'm not into grinding because I get bored after maybe 30 seconds of just rubbing hips and groping. I tried it, didn't like it.

Now since it's the holiday season, I'm pretty bummed out when a ton of my friends go clubbing at like midnight. I have other friends to hang out with too, but it gets old after a while, u know? It's just I really wanna hang out with these guys and gals but seeing as how it's holiday season, they're out partying every other day. I wanna have fun with them while they're sober, not happy-go-lucky horny.

This really sucks. They're great friends and all, it's just at times like these (winter break, summer, etc.).... bleh.

[DoubleJ]

I am sometimes in this situation to. I just turned 21 last week, so I am EXPECTED to go partying and drinking and all that jazz, but honestly, it isn't all that fun. Hygenic was right when she said that you don't feel good the next day. I just don't think that people should cave into peer pressure because they are bored, or because they have nothing better to do. I have a group of friends that I hang out with, and we have tons of fun and get girls without even drinking. The point that I am trying to make is this, one of my friends once told me something that I will always remember; Why is it that we should have to drink to have fun? I thought about it, and after a year, I still can't come up with an answer.