I'm 20 & parents still won't let me go out Options

[pkbabe]

Ok. I'm a 20 yr old female & parents are super strict about me going out. The last time I went out I did it without their permission because I thought their permission wasn't needed since I was only out from noon to 5:30pm....

& yet I STILL get yelled at! The last time I ASKED to go out they shot it down & just told me to stay home because I "supposably" always go out

& my dumb step mother thinks that I only go out go "fool around" with guys like I'm some sort of whore! Telling me that shes starting to worry about my "sudden change of behavior". What sudden change of behavior? That I don't always stay home all the time?

Geez whats a girl to do? I plan to get myself a job & hopefully move out someday but the job part hasn't really come along yet. I was thinking of maybe temporarily living with my bf & his fam (maybe like 2-3 months after I get a job) til I get things rolling. What do you guys think?

[miiszxclassiic]

Well I'm 21 and my parents are just extremely overprotective. I'm the youngest girl out of 5 children and I have a younger brother, but I get it the worst. I look at is as them caring a great deal about me. I get told all the time.. it's a cold world, people are crazy these days, etc.. they are just looking out for me

In your situation I know its annoying and trust me I can't stand it but I'm not sure if moving out would solve the problem though. You need to communicate. Maybe they don't trust you either because of something you have done in the past or because of things that they have done at your age and they don't want you to make the same mistake. My best advice is to first try to talk to them and second to find a (positive) excuse to never be home. Like getting a good job, going to school, or doing something extra curricular.