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[theguardsman]

Hey guys, i seriously need some help here. I have no idea what i should do.

My girlfriend's mad at me. Like, seriously mad. cuz then i went out (friend-to-friend-hangout) with my ex and some other friends the other day and i didnt tell her bout it. I didnt want to tell her because she told me once that she doesnt rly like it if i hang out with my ex. But the thing is that i didnt intended to find my ex, i went out to find this other friend of mine to buy xmas gifts for my parents. i totally didnt go out just to look for my ex...i know its still my fault, i totally shouldnt hv gone cuz my ex is there. but yeh...to be honest, ididnt even flirt or talk to my ex that much, i just walked around to look for xmas gifts.

and now, my girlfriend found out and she got real pissed. she said i wasnt honest with her. i know ididnt, i didthat because ididnt want misunderstand and stuff..

what should i do now? my girlfriend isnt answer the phone, isnt replying me on msn, removed me as a friend on facebook, isnt replying my text messages. she replied me once and said she hates me...

i dont know, but it might be all the schoolwork that is causing her all these stress..i dont know. but i hope it is and the relationship will be strong agian.

oh, and i wrote her an email, which i hope she read. but im not even sure if she did or not..so yeh.

what should i do now? please help!

[alyssa6789]

well since she wont meet you, go to her house when you know shes home.
give her what ever you made her. write her a letter or poem about what she means to you. give her a flower you pick from a house on the way. just dont buy her anything cause if it doesnt work you just wasted money on her and she might think its a bribe.


if that doesnt work give her time to cool down she might come back. if she doesnt then i guess the only thing left is to move on.

good luck!