Why didn't he make a move? Options

[TearsOfAPhoenix]

Ok so I've beening playing back the course of events for a two weeks now and I still can't figure out why he didn't make a move. This guy and I had dated previously twice before and my parent's strict nature always ended up tearing us apart.

We were out with a couple of friends (one of the few times I was let out of the house) after a fight with my mom who had bascially kicked me out of the house. So, we were leaving the restaurant and he asked me where I wanted to go and I told him anywhere but home. We ended up driving to his house where we sat outside his house and talked for like two hours.

My friend called telling me that my dad was wondering why I wasn't home yet, so I called my dad and told him I was on my way home, but the fight with my mom then replayed in my head and this huge sense of not being welcome in my house hit me. I ended up spending the night at his house. We talked in his bed for a couple more hours. He never made a move. I thought I had put myself out there. Obviously, I still very much have feelings for him.

Since then he's bought me a Christmas gift, we've gone out to a basketball game together, and we talk every day at school where he walks me to class.

I need to know if I should let go. We slept in the same bed and he didn't do anything. Why?

[transcendentalis...]

^good answer.
i'm not dating until i'm married :) jk that doesn't make a lot of sense?

nvm, i misread the topic. guys are not horny 24/7. usually it's not hard to convince them, but... sometimes they're just not - and you probably shouldn't do anything about it.

and sorry if you're not talking about sex, because the whole "in his bed" thing implies it

aand if that's how you put yourself out there (SEXUALLY), you fail, in the kindest way possible. not that i try to sexually put myself out there..