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Why didn't he make a move?
TearsOfAPhoenix
post Dec 22 2007, 05:00 PM
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Ok so I've beening playing back the course of events for a two weeks now and I still can't figure out why he didn't make a move. This guy and I had dated previously twice before and my parent's strict nature always ended up tearing us apart.

We were out with a couple of friends (one of the few times I was let out of the house) after a fight with my mom who had bascially kicked me out of the house. So, we were leaving the restaurant and he asked me where I wanted to go and I told him anywhere but home. We ended up driving to his house where we sat outside his house and talked for like two hours.

My friend called telling me that my dad was wondering why I wasn't home yet, so I called my dad and told him I was on my way home, but the fight with my mom then replayed in my head and this huge sense of not being welcome in my house hit me. I ended up spending the night at his house. We talked in his bed for a couple more hours. He never made a move. I thought I had put myself out there. Obviously, I still very much have feelings for him.

Since then he's bought me a Christmas gift, we've gone out to a basketball game together, and we talk every day at school where he walks me to class.

I need to know if I should let go. We slept in the same bed and he didn't do anything. Why?
 
 
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TearsOfAPhoenix
post Dec 28 2007, 12:20 PM
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Hahaha. Well I asked him to be my boyfriend yesterday, so we're back together. Lol. And like a lot of you said he said that he didn't feel it was an appropriate time for him to come on to me. He knew that a lot was going on at home and he wanted to be there for me as a friend because that's what he felt I needed at that time more than anything. :]
 

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TearsOfAPhoenix   Why didn't he make a move?   Dec 22 2007, 05:00 PM
MissHygienic   Oh. My. God. I asked myself these same questions b...   Dec 22 2007, 05:06 PM
TearsOfAPhoenix   Well I mean he's not the shy type at all. I di...   Dec 22 2007, 05:10 PM
MissHygienic   Hmm, yeah, you're in an interesting situation....   Dec 22 2007, 05:13 PM
TearsOfAPhoenix   I guess that's true. The past two times we...   Dec 22 2007, 05:18 PM
Castaway   ask him if he likes you. here's an idea.. may...   Dec 22 2007, 05:30 PM
Synesthesia   He probably doesn't want to date you a third t...   Dec 22 2007, 09:36 PM
synkro   maybe he didn't want to take advantage of you ...   Dec 22 2007, 11:43 PM
TearsOfAPhoenix   Well I thought I flirted quite a bit and I didn...   Dec 22 2007, 11:44 PM
ojairus   beacauseee maybe you had a zit on your face..   Dec 24 2007, 05:01 AM
NoSex   Surprise him. Make the move - maybe he's tired...   Dec 24 2007, 02:46 PM
TearsOfAPhoenix   I should just push him against a wall and kiss him...   Dec 24 2007, 03:37 PM
NoSex   QUOTE(TearsOfAPhoenix @ Dec 24 2007, 02:3...   Dec 24 2007, 11:06 PM
jayybee   QUOTE(TearsOfAPhoenix @ Dec 24 2007, 02:3...   Dec 25 2007, 12:17 AM
sparrowdust   QUOTE(jayybee @ Dec 25 2007, 01:17 AM) ...   Dec 27 2007, 03:43 AM
Synesthesia   The last sentences of his card border on romantic ...   Dec 24 2007, 03:44 PM
TearsOfAPhoenix   Ohhh I forgot to add that he asked me what ring si...   Dec 24 2007, 03:51 PM
Joss-eh-lime   you're talking about sex right? he might be s...   Dec 24 2007, 07:24 PM
jayybee   QUOTE(TearsOfAPhoenix @ Dec 22 2007, 04:0...   Dec 25 2007, 12:14 AM
TearsOfAPhoenix   Apparently he asked his best friend if he should a...   Dec 27 2007, 12:18 AM
sadolakced acid   maybe he's gay. i mean, that comment about da...   Dec 27 2007, 02:31 AM
sadolakced acid   maybe he's gay. i mean, that comment about da...   Dec 27 2007, 02:31 AM
TearsOfAPhoenix   Hahaha. Well I asked him to be my boyfriend yester...   Dec 28 2007, 12:20 PM
ojairus   hes waiting for marriage.   Dec 28 2007, 05:39 PM
sparrowdust   ^good answer. i'm not dating until i'm mar...   Dec 28 2007, 05:46 PM


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