Who'd you rather spend your birthday with?, Friends or Family Options

[MrStrife]

Jeez Louise. I don't even know how I got myself into this dilemma. First off, let me state that I didn't even want anybody to know it was my birthday in the first place. It just seems the older I get, I see mine and other peoples' being disapppointments. Curse society's notion to have "so much fun" on your birthday. Damn I just want to get drunk with my homiez, dance with some homegirls & maybe get a number/action. So yeah that's the night I planned out with my friends even though I didn't tell them it was my birthday. But my family knows and wants me to go join them at another thing. Plus, I don't even get along with my sisters anymore so I know I'm going to have to fake it if I make it. Thing is, I'm only one person and can't be at two places at the same time. I can try to do both but I'm pretty sure that someone will feel disappointed in that I don't want to spend time with them. What would you do?

[MrStrife]

^How did you get to be an Official Member when I got more posts than you? lol

Yeah, I'm 21 today. It's not that it's mandatory, it's just that I feel guilty that I barely spend time with them, that's all. It's my sisters who I no longer get along with and my cousins who I owe a hell of lot to. Even worse is that if I do choose to go with them, I'm just going to go through the motions and be checking on the time so I can get ready to party with my peoples.

Btw, I never told my friends my birthday. Whenever they asked, I just changed the subject.

[MissHygienic]

^How did you get to be an Official Member when I got more posts than you? lol

Yeah, I'm 21 today. It's not that it's mandatory, it's just that I feel guilty that I barely spend time with them, that's all. It's my sisters who I no longer get along with and my cousins who I owe a hell of lot to. Even worse is that if I do choose to go with them, I'm just going to go through the motions and be checking on the time so I can get ready to party with my peoples.

Btw, I never told my friends my birthday. Whenever they asked, I just changed the subject.

I don't know, really. Insurmountable messaged me and was all, "Want to be an Official Member?" And I'm all, "Yes," and that's how I became one.

I think I misinterpreted your post, then, as your question was, "who would you rather spend time with?" If I were you, I'd pick friends just because, well, my family has known me long enough. I don't spend that much time with them, either, but they understand that we don't have to be that close with each other.

I hope you had a good birthday, though.