It's a Weird situation, comment about it? Options

[drummergirlmarim...]

Idk where to start. Me and this guy met randomly. But we got uber close. and now we're at an unspoken agreement that we like each other. but we're complete opposite. hes super passive and doesnt talk a lot to people he doesnt know. but i like to meet new people and etc. hes christian, and i doubt the existance of a god. idk. we wont kiss beucase he wants to save his first kiss for the person hes going to marry. which he says is me according to his plans. mm. so we "cheek kiss" where we put our cheeks together. :X and he kissed me neck before Dx WAHHHHHH... idk its weird isnt it?

[MissHygienic]

First thing's first: Ew. You guys have one too many differences to really be happy with one another. It's one thing to say, "I didn't expect the person I love to be timid, romantic, prudish, religious" but that's probably because they have similar goals in life and they strive for a common goal as a couple. You're going to end up doing what you want, but a successful relationship is to have someone who mirrors your goals and values.

If he ends up not being able to handle or get over your decisions/choices, you're not going to magically go along with his because you guys are just too different. It really does not matter if you guys are infatuated each other in the moment. When the hardships come, you probably won't get along, and there will be a lot of tension of, "Why can't you be this way, blah blah blah?"