Why didn't he make a move? |
Why didn't he make a move? |
Dec 22 2007, 05:00 PM
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Ok so I've beening playing back the course of events for a two weeks now and I still can't figure out why he didn't make a move. This guy and I had dated previously twice before and my parent's strict nature always ended up tearing us apart. We were out with a couple of friends (one of the few times I was let out of the house) after a fight with my mom who had bascially kicked me out of the house. So, we were leaving the restaurant and he asked me where I wanted to go and I told him anywhere but home. We ended up driving to his house where we sat outside his house and talked for like two hours. My friend called telling me that my dad was wondering why I wasn't home yet, so I called my dad and told him I was on my way home, but the fight with my mom then replayed in my head and this huge sense of not being welcome in my house hit me. I ended up spending the night at his house. We talked in his bed for a couple more hours. He never made a move. I thought I had put myself out there. Obviously, I still very much have feelings for him. Since then he's bought me a Christmas gift, we've gone out to a basketball game together, and we talk every day at school where he walks me to class. I need to know if I should let go. We slept in the same bed and he didn't do anything. Why? |
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Dec 24 2007, 03:37 PM
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I should just push him against a wall and kiss him shouldn't I? I really would, but I don't want to jeapordize the friendship we've formed since our break-up and create weirdness. You know?
For Christmas I got him a new video game and I wrote him a card thanking him for being there for me during the problems with my family and for always cheering me up. Last night he came and dropped my gift, which turned out to be a bracelet and his attempt at a card (he has horrible spelling). He wrote, "It's been so much fun with you the past year. I knew I had a great person in my life with David (his best friend), but now I know I have two. I will always be there for you for whatever you need. I'm sorry its been a rough year for you and your family and I hope I did all I could to make it easier for you. You know I have all the love in the world for you. So I hope we can have an even better year in 2008. Me and you= happiness. Love ya, signed his name." Is that just friendly or does our relationship still have romantic potential? |
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Dec 24 2007, 11:06 PM
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TearsOfAPhoenix Why didn't he make a move? Dec 22 2007, 05:00 PM
MissHygienic Oh. My. God. I asked myself these same questions b... Dec 22 2007, 05:06 PM
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Castaway ask him if he likes you.
here's an idea.. may... Dec 22 2007, 05:30 PM
Synesthesia He probably doesn't want to date you a third t... Dec 22 2007, 09:36 PM
synkro maybe he didn't want to take advantage of you ... Dec 22 2007, 11:43 PM
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ojairus beacauseee maybe you had a zit on your face.. Dec 24 2007, 05:01 AM
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jayybee QUOTE(TearsOfAPhoenix @ Dec 24 2007, 02:3... Dec 25 2007, 12:17 AM
sparrowdust QUOTE(jayybee @ Dec 25 2007, 01:17 AM) ... Dec 27 2007, 03:43 AM
Synesthesia The last sentences of his card border on romantic ... Dec 24 2007, 03:44 PM
TearsOfAPhoenix Ohhh I forgot to add that he asked me what ring si... Dec 24 2007, 03:51 PM
Joss-eh-lime you're talking about sex right?
he might be s... Dec 24 2007, 07:24 PM
jayybee QUOTE(TearsOfAPhoenix @ Dec 22 2007, 04:0... Dec 25 2007, 12:14 AM
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sadolakced acid maybe he's gay.
i mean, that comment about da... Dec 27 2007, 02:31 AM
sadolakced acid maybe he's gay.
i mean, that comment about da... Dec 27 2007, 02:31 AM
TearsOfAPhoenix Hahaha. Well I asked him to be my boyfriend yester... Dec 28 2007, 12:20 PM
ojairus hes waiting for marriage. Dec 28 2007, 05:39 PM
sparrowdust ^good answer.
i'm not dating until i'm mar... Dec 28 2007, 05:46 PM![]() ![]() |