Why didn't he make a move? Options

[TearsOfAPhoenix]

Ok so I've beening playing back the course of events for a two weeks now and I still can't figure out why he didn't make a move. This guy and I had dated previously twice before and my parent's strict nature always ended up tearing us apart.

We were out with a couple of friends (one of the few times I was let out of the house) after a fight with my mom who had bascially kicked me out of the house. So, we were leaving the restaurant and he asked me where I wanted to go and I told him anywhere but home. We ended up driving to his house where we sat outside his house and talked for like two hours.

My friend called telling me that my dad was wondering why I wasn't home yet, so I called my dad and told him I was on my way home, but the fight with my mom then replayed in my head and this huge sense of not being welcome in my house hit me. I ended up spending the night at his house. We talked in his bed for a couple more hours. He never made a move. I thought I had put myself out there. Obviously, I still very much have feelings for him.

Since then he's bought me a Christmas gift, we've gone out to a basketball game together, and we talk every day at school where he walks me to class.

I need to know if I should let go. We slept in the same bed and he didn't do anything. Why?

[MissHygienic]

Oh. My. God. I asked myself these same questions before I started dating my boyfriend. Because I don't know you or him or the situation at-whole, I'll speak from my personal experience. With me, I offered my bed to my not-at-the-time boyfriend and in turn, he said, "I can sleep on the floor." WHAT THE HELL.

Men are airheads, and sometimes they come up with these ridiculous assumptions and other things that make them shy away from making a move. Perhaps he thought that you only wanted to stay in his bed because your parents were angry at you, and that you didn't actually have "feelings" for him. He's probably just shy or confused, even if you think you've put yourself out there.

Don't let it go if you like him.