change?, im in love with this chick..but she wants me to change. |
 Dec 20 2007, 04:54 PM
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me & this chick went out for about a week, we broke up because she had family problems..in school we still acted like a couple [hold hands, kiss, etc.] but then we broke up for good, because of some stupid crap that i did. Now we've both talked about it & she wants me to change..
the reason is that im bisexual..& she wants me to change..this is what she told me. "Okay change for me be more of a man. More manly. When I see that you have changed I'll give you that chance." what do i do? do i change for someone i love..or what? |
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Dec 21 2007, 10:52 PM
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no offense but do you act like a normal guy?
or do you act girly and dress girly? Cause some of the gay guys at my school act and dress girly. if you don't.. then i'm not sure what to say. Do you really love her? you would never know until you let go of course. it would suck to change for someone you think you love and she dumps within a week or two. It also doesn't seem like she loves you for who you are. I'm not sure if i would change for someone i love or (think i love). it's very tempting, but i guess it really depends what she wants me to change. Btw, if she just wants you to change your orientation, i don't think you would be able to, can you? |
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mauriciocruelty change? Dec 20 2007, 04:54 PM
snoopdog who is it tell me!!
why havnt i heard of t... Dec 20 2007, 08:57 PM Synesthesia Just because you're bi doesn't mean that y... Dec 20 2007, 09:16 PM GimmieDisco It sounds like she wants you to be more masculine?... Dec 20 2007, 09:24 PM LoveToMySilas Well. Perhaps Dani is right. Maybe she wants you t... Dec 20 2007, 11:27 PM mauriciocruelty manly?
umm well see when we were going out,
i woul... Dec 21 2007, 12:14 PM
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