change for love?, im in love with this chick..but she wants me to change. Options

[mauriciocruelty]

me & this chick went out for about a week, we broke up because she had family problems..in school we still acted like a couple [hold hands, kiss, etc.] but then we broke up for good, because of some stupid crap that i did. Now we've both talked about it & she wants me to change..
the reason is that im bisexual..& she wants me to change..this is what she told me.

"Okay change for me
be more of a man.
More manly.
When I see that you have changed
I'll give you that chance."



what do i do?

do i change for someone i love..or what?

[bobbyrocks15]

well if you love some enough then youll change for them =]

[MissHygienic]

well if you love some enough then youll change for them =]

This is the most absurd statement I've read in the time I've been on CreateBlog.

If she finds that she needs to change something about you, then you are obviously not good enough for her as you are, and that, my friend, is the least healthy way to begin a relationship. In other words, she's a bitch.

[bobbyrocks15]

This is the most absurd statement I've read in the time I've been on CreateBlog.

If she finds that she needs to change something about you, then you are obviously not good enough for her as you are, and that, my friend, is the least healthy way to begin a relationship. In other words, she's a bitch.

then i guess youve never loved some one before..

[MissHygienic]

then i guess youve never loved some one before..

I guess you've never had someone truly love you.

If the person loves me, he will not force me to bend over backwards to suit his tastes. If he can't accept my lifestyle and what I choose to do with my life, then he doesn't love me.

If you've changed for your partner, then I must say that this is pathetic.

[bobbyrocks15]

I guess you've never had someone truly love you.

If the person loves me, he will not force me to bend over backwards to suit his tastes. If he can't accept my lifestyle and what I choose to do with my life, then he doesn't love me.

If you've changed for your partner, then I must say that this is pathetic.

no way no way
your telling me
if the person you love gets into drugs
you just break it off
you dont ask them to stop or get help?

they should beable to change for you
no matter what the cost
or you change for them

[MissHygienic]

no way no way
your telling me
if the person you love gets into drugs
you just break it off
you dont ask them to stop or get help?

they should beable to change for you
no matter what the cost
or you change for them

That's an irrelevant example; you are trying to compare apples and oranges. If the circumstance is detrimental to someone's health/well-being, then you have to make adjustments, but you are not changing who you are. Drugs do not make up a human being. Your sexuality, on the other hand, hurts no one and no one should try to change such a thing. It's like asking someone, "Please stop being Caucasian, it hurts me."