change for love?, im in love with this chick..but she wants me to change. Options

[mauriciocruelty]

me & this chick went out for about a week, we broke up because she had family problems..in school we still acted like a couple [hold hands, kiss, etc.] but then we broke up for good, because of some stupid crap that i did. Now we've both talked about it & she wants me to change..
the reason is that im bisexual..& she wants me to change..this is what she told me.

"Okay change for me
be more of a man.
More manly.
When I see that you have changed
I'll give you that chance."



what do i do?

do i change for someone i love..or what?

[mauriciocruelty]

Thanks alot,
not it seems..
that well maybe yall are right, & shes wrong.

maybe it was just an illusion of love,
i just cant believe i was actually up for the change
to be with her..


so how do i tell her that i wont change for her?

[Kontroll]

Thanks alot,
not it seems..
that well maybe yall are right, & shes wrong.

maybe it was just an illusion of love,
i just cant believe i was actually up for the change
to be with her..
so how do i tell her that i wont change for her?

Tell her exactly that. You have to tell her something. If you don't talk to her she'll think you're a pussy. But just be firm and strong.

Keep eye contact. Important right there. Shows confidence. Have a strong voice. Don't whisper or anything. So, if there's anything else just ask.