Gossip leads to drama, always. |
Gossip leads to drama, always. |
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Skipping the background info here's the deal
My Side: Friend A said something about Friend B and since both are my friends I decided not to take sides, but to just say what needed to be said, and leave it. Friend B's Side: I should have told Friend A off, becuase I am supposed to defend Friend B. I feel I was right in staying neutral, but Friend B definately donest agree with that. What do you think I should (have) done. |
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This is so hard. I have been through this so many times.
How I react depends on what the person said. It's always a case by case basis, but usually I let Friend A know it's okay with me if they don't like friend b, but I would appreciate it if they didn't drag me into the middle. Sometimes what someone says offends me to the point I have to defend my friend. It's something I can't help. |
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