love vs like who wins? Options

[snoopdog]

hmm theres a girl that i lyk
she has a boyfriend
she lyks me and i know this for sureee
buh she has told me she loves her boyfriend
last friday we kissed
and my buddd told me she was crying
cuz she didnt know who to decided
between me and her boyfrann
love vs lyk

o btw
she has only seen her boyfrann twice
in the four months they have been dating
she has never french kissed
and shes a virgen

go figure

[jayybee]

okay well


1st:
go to sleep revolatire!
please.
i know its past yo bed time.

&& second:
you are really closed minded for someone whose getting married.
was he the only guy you ever dated prior to getting engaged?

because if so, thats why your saying all these things.
you had it set in your mind that this guy was it.
after whatevr time period you and your fiance were together before he proposed you already had in your mind that he was the one

dedication dedication dedication!

am i right?

&& for this girl
she's in high school.
regardless of what age or grade she 's in
she's been brought up that you have to kiss a bunch of frogs
to find her prince charming.
she has her whole life to not ever be in this situation again.

its killing her more than you think.
you think she's just some chilidish little girl who plays games with peoples hearts.

&& you might not want to admit it to me
& thats fine cuz ima stranger & i dont blame you
but you been hurt by love.
&& i dnt know if it was the same situation, but you been hurt.
&& thats understandable for you to think that that one person is that one person at that time.

but you cant force anything to work out if it aint meant to be,

hence, the topic starter turning into the lover from the friend.

[MissFits]

&& second:
you are really closed minded for someone whose getting married.
was he the only guy you ever dated prior to getting engaged?

because if so, thats why your saying all these things.
you had it set in your mind that this guy was it.
after whatevr time period you and your fiance were together before he proposed you already had in your mind that he was the one

dedication dedication dedication!

am i right?

&& for this girl
she's in high school.
regardless of what age or grade she 's in
she's been brought up that you have to kiss a bunch of frogs
to find her prince charming.
she has her whole life to not ever be in this situation again.

its killing her more than you think.
you think she's just some chilidish little girl who plays games with peoples hearts.

&& you might not want to admit it to me
& thats fine cuz ima stranger & i dont blame you
but you been hurt by love.
&& i dnt know if it was the same situation, but you been hurt.
&& thats understandable for you to think that that one person is that one person at that time.

but you cant force anything to work out if it aint meant to be,

hence, the topic starter turning into the lover from the friend.

I am close minded? Because I don't approve of someone being unfaithful I am close minded? Is it close minded to think that when you are with someone regardless of how far away they are that they have given you a part of themselves and it is unfair to betray that by giving yourself to someone else? I think this is a good way to think before getting married, that's a life long promise to never betray my honeys trust, and because I feel this way, I know i wont.

I have dated a few other guys, I am no whore, but I have experienced other relationships. They weren't terrible, but I knew they weren't what I wanted for the rest of my life. I have been cheated on, and I can honestly say that is one of the most f**ked up things you can do to someone on an emotional level. Every one has been hurt in relationships, I have never been in love before John so no I have never been hurt by love. I did know that John was the one for me, and if she knew one of these guys was the one for her she wouldn't have a problem choosing.

Yes, I am very dedicated to my relationship. I think, and my pre marital counselor agrees, that it is something necessary in a relationship. What's the point in being with someone if you aren't dedicated to them?

I don't get what your saying when you say "for you to think that that one person is that one person at that time.". That sentence makes no sense at all. If you wanna clear that up, maybe grab a dictionary or something, you are more than welcome to.

I don't see how any of my relationships have anything to do with his problem.
I am saying if she does it to her boyfriend now, what will stop her from doing it to this guy? He needs to tell her that until she can devote herself to him that a relationship is not going to work, because it's the truth. It's not fair to him to be the "other man". I am not saying she should force herself into loving her boyfriend, but she shouldn't be a back stabbing tramp.
Being indecisive is okay, but dragging two other people along is just cruel.