love vs like who wins? Options

[snoopdog]

hmm theres a girl that i lyk
she has a boyfriend
she lyks me and i know this for sureee
buh she has told me she loves her boyfriend
last friday we kissed
and my buddd told me she was crying
cuz she didnt know who to decided
between me and her boyfrann
love vs lyk

o btw
she has only seen her boyfrann twice
in the four months they have been dating
she has never french kissed
and shes a virgen

go figure

[MissHygienic]

I'm confused why you keep the defending the girl when the original poster was a guy who had a question about what he should do. Look, it doesn't matter if she is dying on the inside, she is leading guys on and clearly confusing him, for crying out loud. It's entirely selfish of her, and the guy should not get romantically involved further and spend his spare time writing on this girl's rack. Who in her right mind would allow another guy to do this while she's in a relationship? Let me throw out a concept to you, once again: two-faced. She is "playin'" in your words.

[jayybee]

I'm confused why you keep the defending the girl when the original poster was a guy who had a question about what he should do. Look, it doesn't matter if she is dying on the inside, she is leading guys on and clearly confusing him, for crying out loud. It's entirely selfish of her, and the guy should not get romantically involved further and spend his spare time writing on this girl's rack. Who in her right mind would allow another guy to do this while she's in a relationship? Let me throw out a concept to you, once again: two-faced. She is "playin'" in your words.

who is she confusing?
honestly!
she's made her feelings clear
to the topic starter, & he knows the deal.
there has been no talk of the long distance dude
& whether he knows or is cool about he situation.

to me its up to the guy.

if the long distance dude cares about her like your implying,
then he would be man enough to let her choose with her heart.
which is what she's tryna do.

&& obviously thats what the topic starter is doing because he
hasnt excactly given the girl an "either // or" scenario.

he wants this girl badly but he knows her situation.
if he was getting played,
he would've known a long time ago.
if she didnt care she wouldnt have cried.
you dont just cry to cry people.
emotions evoke tears.