he said "we'r meant to be together" Options

[Silly--x]

me and my boyfriend has been together for 6 months now.. he has always been there for me whenever we're the bestest friends

something happened on sunday.. it was his mates 18th birthday but he was meant to spend the day with me.. his mate mike has try to get him to cheat on me heaps of times but my boyfriend had turn him down.. well mike called in at around noon and told him it's a boys time and so my boyfriend promised me to spend the day until 6 o'clock with me.. i was abit pissed off.. i cried.. hmm which i couldn't stop it because iam a very emotional person then that night the last night he called me was 8 o'clock and then at around 10 at night i tried call him but his phone was off.. and he didn't call me until 4.30 the next afternoon.. ok so we talked for hours and hours he told me "ok this is one thing that we're really different about.. you love the city and you love the shops heaps and heaps of shops but i have been lying to myself that i would leave anywhere you want to live in.. but for me i would really like to live in somewhere where it's peace and quite and like the farm" and then he said "i want a girl who will support where i live and my career" then i was crying on the phone cause i really don't want to lose him but he sounds like he was going to dump me.. and he told me "if we ever break up i want it to be a mutual break up we'll still be best friends and i will always be here for you no matter what ok is it a deal?" and then.. later last night i called him and say that i really love him and dont ever wanna lose him and he told me "i wasn't thinking before about what i say i want a girl who supports where i live etc.. i just dont want to lose you because i know we're meant to be together" so i was happier last night and i got a good sleep

but then today i txted him if he is coming to see me tonight he txted back saying "i mis u huni mwah xoxo, 2 nyt yup at 6" but its 8.42pm atm and i called his house his mum said he is at work.. he doesn't reply my txts i have sent a milion and he also dont reply my call

i don't know what's going on

[MissHygienic]

Wait, what? How does him saying that he wants a girl who supports his decisions relates to being unable to lose you? I don't understand this part.

To me, this just sounds like a slight misunderstanding and it's causing an unnecessary amount of tension. It will pass. You just have to trust your relationship and him.

Edit: MissFits got the word in before me. I think we have more things in common than I had thought with the "emo" thing. ;)

[MissFits]

Edit: MissFits got the word in before me. I think we have more things in common than I had thought with the "emo" thing. ;)

I know, after that I didn't like you but you are really growing on me! ?

[MissHygienic]

I know, after that I didn't like you but you are really growing on me! ?

I have the same sentiments. Plus, I'm not one for e-grudges. for you.

I'm done hijacking this thread, though.

Silly--x, don't stress yourself too much over something like this. Take it easy. It feels bad at the moment, but it could be worse. Like, he could have cheated on you. And, if you were wondering, like, if he's avoiding you, or something, let him have some room, I guess? I don't let my boyfriend breathe until I know things will be okay between him and me, but some guys are like that. I'm not really being helpful at all, but yeah, it will pass. Whether it's for the better or worse, well, that rests entirely in your hands.