love vs like who wins? Options

[snoopdog]

hmm theres a girl that i lyk
she has a boyfriend
she lyks me and i know this for sureee
buh she has told me she loves her boyfriend
last friday we kissed
and my buddd told me she was crying
cuz she didnt know who to decided
between me and her boyfrann
love vs lyk

o btw
she has only seen her boyfrann twice
in the four months they have been dating
she has never french kissed
and shes a virgen

go figure

[MissHygienic]

You're right, she's not being a whore, she's being a two-faced cockteaser because she can, and this is somehow "right" to you? She tells one guy one thing, and she runs off to tell another guy, her boyfriend, other things. Being unable to make up your mind about food is not the same as being unable to make sense of your feelings, because in the process of making up your mind about two guys, you are playing with their emotions and heads. It is not only inconsiderate but it is selfish to put people on the edge because she's trying to "sort out her feelings." Just don't be in a relationship at all.

[jayybee]

You're right, she's not being a whore, she's being a two-faced cockteaser because she can, and this is somehow "right" to you? She tells one guy one thing, and she runs off to tell another guy, her boyfriend, other things. Being unable to make up your mind about food is not the same as being unable to make sense of your feelings, because in the process of making up your mind about two guys, you are playing with their emotions and heads. It is not only inconsiderate but it is selfish to put people on the edge because she's trying to "sort out her feelings." Just don't be in a relationship at all.

she's not playin tease.
she playing:
"whose in it for the long run?"
you have to see that.
put yourself int othat girls shoes.
you think she's just playin like she a mackk?
i can tell you right now this girl
has spent nights crying over
which one not to hurt.


you basically gettin' at her like she a ruthless bitch!

i wonder if you have ever been scorned by love?

you sound bitter!

[MissHygienic]

she's not playin tease.
she playing:
"whose in it for the long run?"
you have to see that.
put yourself int othat girls shoes.
you think she's just playin like she a mackk?
i can tell you right now this girl
has spent nights crying over
which one not to hurt.
you basically gettin' at her like she a ruthless bitch!

i wonder if you have ever been scorned by love?

you sound bitter!

But on the flip side, it is unfair to the guys who are far more confused than her, and at the same time, worrying who she's going to pick. It is not healthy; it doesn't matter that, in the off-chance, she's spending nights crying. She needs to get her shit straight, for the sake of her well-being, too.

No, I'm not bitter, I just don't condone this type of thinking. My boyfriend? I've loved only him, far longer than we've dated. I've never had to choose between guys because my head isn't up my ass. I'm committed to him, and vice-versa, and it will stay that way. I know what I want, and if I didn't? I can tell you that I wouldn't put everyone on the edge due to my issues.