breaking your hymen, virginity |
 Dec 15 2007, 01:57 PM
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Hi,
im new and have a very seneitive question for you all to answer. I'm still a virgin but i won't tell you how old as it's quite embarrassing really. It's not that i'm frigid or anything just that i've never had a boyfriend that lasted long enough, i had a hard time through school and sturggled with anorexia from very early on and so found it difficult to have a lasting relationship. Thing is i really really need to lose my virginity now as it's became a really big issue for me, i'm scared to get close to any guy now for fear of him finding it out and thinking i'm a total loser or something, so i've been thinking about buying a dildo or something to break my hymen for myself, so then i don't have to worry and could simply get a boyfriend and enjoy a proper sex life like someone normal. Please don't be harsh with me, i'm very sensitive and i guess niave. I've looked at pics of what hymen looks like and checked my own but i'd like to know if anyone can suggest a site or something that shows what your supposed to look like down there after lossing virginity and hymen is gone. Please help, and thanks in advance!!! |
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Dec 15 2007, 03:41 PM
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 DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
QUOTE Thing is i really really need to lose my virginity now as it's became a really big issue for me, i'm scared to get close to any guy now for fear of him finding it out and thinking i'm a total loser or something, so i've been thinking about buying a dildo or something to break my hymen for myself, so then i don't have to worry and could simply get a boyfriend and enjoy a proper sex life like someone normal Honestly, I think you need to work on your self esteem. Your hymen's probably already been broken. Esspecially if you've used tampons. If you want to go buy yourself a sex toy, go with. Get used to your sexuality and maybe you'll become more comfortable with it. Don't have sex because you "need to". |
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Dec 15 2007, 11:48 PM
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 An original Harry Potter fan Group: Official Member Posts: 1,469 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 552,023 |
QUOTE(karmakiller @ Dec 15 2007, 03:41 PM)  Honestly, I think you need to work on your self esteem. Your hymen's probably already been broken. Esspecially if you've used tampons. If you want to go buy yourself a sex toy, go with. Get used to your sexuality and maybe you'll become more comfortable with it. Don't have sex because you "need to". Exactly first things first you need to work on your self esteem and there is a GOOD chance that your hymen is already Broken. |
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pettedpaccha breaking your hymen Dec 15 2007, 01:57 PM
angelrevelation 0_0 why do you HAVE to break it/lose your virginit... Dec 15 2007, 02:04 PM MissHygienic Just do it? Dec 15 2007, 02:14 PM MissFits You hymen is usually broken before you have sex.
G... Dec 15 2007, 02:15 PM deplorable i think youre too hard on yourself.
but i do unde... Dec 15 2007, 02:33 PM sweetasphyxia guys like virgins so i wouldnt be too worried; rea... Dec 15 2007, 02:38 PM
Sandraaa OMG. The thought of devirgining yourself made me c... Dec 18 2007, 09:46 AM S-Majere This made me really sad when I was reading your po... Dec 18 2007, 05:18 PM nosylilme ^ Listen to her.
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