breaking your hymen, virginity |
breaking your hymen, virginity |
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Newbie ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 600,996 ![]() |
Hi,
im new and have a very seneitive question for you all to answer. I'm still a virgin but i won't tell you how old as it's quite embarrassing really. It's not that i'm frigid or anything just that i've never had a boyfriend that lasted long enough, i had a hard time through school and sturggled with anorexia from very early on and so found it difficult to have a lasting relationship. Thing is i really really need to lose my virginity now as it's became a really big issue for me, i'm scared to get close to any guy now for fear of him finding it out and thinking i'm a total loser or something, so i've been thinking about buying a dildo or something to break my hymen for myself, so then i don't have to worry and could simply get a boyfriend and enjoy a proper sex life like someone normal. Please don't be harsh with me, i'm very sensitive and i guess niave. I've looked at pics of what hymen looks like and checked my own but i'd like to know if anyone can suggest a site or something that shows what your supposed to look like down there after lossing virginity and hymen is gone. Please help, and thanks in advance!!! |
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i think youre too hard on yourself.
but i do understand what you are going through. i suffered from anorexia and a sick obsession to excercise in my grade 10 year. and i do suffer from a very low self esteem. anyways, i wont go into details... but ive finally met a person i do love, truely love. i still dont plan to have sex until after marriage, but just having someone who cherishes me is a comfort. i think your plans can only end in heart break, and even lower self esteem. there isnt anything wrong with being a virgin, and if you meet a guy who thinks there is, well, hes insensitive and probably not the type of guy you want to hang with, much less date or sleep with. |
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