ay help, boy trouble Options

[LizzieCupcakes]

ok this is pretty lame and i think the answer is pretty logical. ok i have a boy friend who i've been with nearly a year and we've had our ups and downs in our relationship but the thing its a long distance relationship which makes things ALOT harder. so recently i moved to a new school and met new people because of my brother because he is well known at the school. so i met tons of his friends and one of the them i met a couple of months ago. when i met him we just started talking and i thought he was really nice. weeks went by or so and i saw him again when i went to go talk to a teacher in the class with my brother. the same day i got a text from my brother to text him cause he wanted to talk to me. so i started texting him and we began texting each other back and forth alot since then. But the thing about this kid is that he has a girlfriend =/ which is lame because i really really like him even though i have a boyfriend. well since we've been texting each other, a couple of days ago he asked if i wanted to be his "secret gf" at school. i thought about it and decided not to because i would probably end up getting hurt so i said no but we still talk. i really want to be with him but idunno what to do but my chances are shot down cause he does have a gf but i feel bad for feeling like this even though i have a bf. so what should i do? end things with my boyfriend for feeling this way or ignore it cause its just a silly crush?

Added since 12/21/07
Ok well since I typed that ^ I kept talking to the other guy and we got closer then before. I didn't tell my boyfriend a word about it. Me and the other guy would hang out alot during lunch and just flirt with each other. Well we where messing around and he decided he was gonna be really cute and give me kisses on the cheek and forehead during second period. well it never happened cause i got caught out of class so I had to go back so we texted each other saying maybe tomorrow. i talked to my brother about it and he said not to do anything with him because he said he didnt want me to have a bed rep. at school for it so i texted the other guy back saying the kisses werent gonna happen anymore and that we should just be friends and he said he understood. the next day was the last day of school before winter break and I asked him if he wanted his gift i was gonna give him for christmas and he sure. well during first period i told him in a text he was lame and hard to forget cause i still wanted something with him and he said it was nice for me to care. and at that point i thought he gave a f**k because he was being rude and mean and through out the whole day i was mad because now that i wanted to be friends he was being mean towards me so i decided not to give him the present and give it to my friends. then he ended texting me back asking if he was gonna go get the present and i said no and to not worry about it and hes told me whatever. well on myspace i saw him and i tried talking to him to make things calm and he ignored my messages until he sent me some sad videos in a comment and i didnt get what he was doing and then he sent a message saying i was lame and hard to forget and from then we where talking about how we felt i told him the only reason i wanted to be friends was because i didnt want to be his plan B or his alternative and i guess he got mad cause i called him a "player" or "pimp" and he said I should of never thought that cause he was gonna leave his girl for me but I apparently f**ked it up so he wasnt gonna do anything anymore and the whole day he was mad at me cause i "labeled" him and that he hated that in people well he finally texted saying if we wanted to hang out and i said sure and then we ended up arguing again about dumb stuff and hes like dont come tomorrow cause i dont want you too and then he said i dont think i can talk to you the same way and said bye

so now the problem is how can get him to be my friend again or at least be in good terms cause i dont want to be in bad terms because when i go back to school I'm gonna have a class with him so i dont want things to be awkward with him. I thought of dropping the class cause its just student government so i dont really need to be in it.

so help me out =/

[MissFits]

You know what you want to do because you said the answer was obvious. Regardless of what we say, you are going to do what you want.
That being said I am going to offer my advice anyway.
I would tell your brothers friend to fuck off. If he is willing to have you as his "secret girlfriend" while he has another lady he probably isn't that great of a guy.
I would also try to fix whatever is bothering you about your current boyfriend. Christmas break is probably coming up and I would suggest that you two spend some time together. If the spark is gone break it off and spend some time being single.