I don't know what to say., A friend isn't talking to me, even though I've said sorry. Options

[PaintMyFace]

(I apologise for the length of this post!)

Me and my friend have fallen out... over what exactly, I don't know.

I think it's because I talked to someone during a 'year book' meeting that I'm not friends with, and apparently she was talking to me and I didn't hear her. (If she wanted to talk to me and I wasn't talking back, couldn't she have tapped me on the shoulder or something?)

And now she's got all stressy... so I asked her if she wanted to talk during school break (which goes on for 15 minutes) and she said 'whatever' in a way that made me think that she didn't really care if we talked or not... so from there, I didn't know what to do.

I didn't talk to her, in the end. I didn't have enough courage/confidence... so I text her after school. Bad move, I know, but I didn't know what else to do.

Basically, the text said 'look, I know I should have talked to you today, but when I asked you if we could talk it seemed as if you didn't care if we did or didn't. So I didn't know what to do... I'm sorry for whatever I've done and to be honest, I didn't realise talking to someone I'm not really friends with is a big deal.'

??? Was that a good way to go about things?

She's online (MSN) at the moment, and I'm not sure if I should speak to her. She hasn't texted back to my text, which I know if she said she didn't have enough credit is bull, cus she's on contract and usually has like quite a lot of credit on there anyway.

I'm not sure if I should talk to her or not. (On MSN, I mean.)

I think I've totally blew my chance of getting this all sorted out, but I was really confused as to why she was angry at me and so didn't really know what to do.

I've apologised to her twice now (both through text... coward, I know(!)) and she hasn't replied. Well, she replied to the first one, and said 'I'll talk to you later'. She never did.

I'm not sure if I should think that she doesn't want our friendship to go on any longer... but if that happens, I'll probably fall out with my other friends (the other 2 that hang around with us... we're like all best friends) too, and don't want that to happen. One of them is my bestest friend, and I don't know what I'd do without one friend... I'd be a total loner at school... I don't have any other friends to fall back on... I'm worried about what will happen.

What should I do/say to her?

Please help. >.<

[S-Majere]

I've had similar experiences with a particularly clingy ex-friend. Usually I'm far too arrogant and conceited to apologise (I hate doing that. Hate it!) so I just move on. I want friends that understand me, and heck if I don't pay attention to them - they won't sulk about it!