Am I cheating? |
 Dec 4 2007, 11:52 AM
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My current boyfriend and I just moved in togehter about 3 months ago. We are living in a new area so we are both making new friends. I made a couple of friends at work, and I spend a lot of time at one of the girl's house. Now she is a little older than me, but she has a sister in law who is my age. Her sis in law hangs with a lot of guys, and there is a really handsome (slightly younger than me) guy who's "diggin' me." When I'm over at my friends house I'm always flirting with him, and when I'm at work I text him from her phone so my boyfriend doesn't find out. I'm not the type of chick to cheat, so am I headed down the wrong path?
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Dec 4 2007, 12:28 PM
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It seems like your not happy.
I don't know you, or anything about your relationship. But, I do know that people that are happy in their relationships don't pay any mind to male callers. If you are having such a hard time choosing you don't love your boyfriend. In my opinion, anyway. 
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Dec 4 2007, 12:42 PM
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QUOTE(MissFits @ Dec 4 2007, 11:28 AM)  It seems like your not happy. I don't know you, or anything about your relationship. But, I do know that people that are happy in their relationships don't pay any mind to male callers. If you are having such a hard time choosing you don't love your boyfriend. In my opinion, anyway. I understand where you're coming from. I do love my boyfriend, but I'm not yet in love with him. I care about him, and I love for our relationship to work out but at the same time I feel like I can't be my WHOLE self around him. I'm sometimes walking on eggs shells to make sure and not say, or do the wrong thing just to avoid a petty argument. He doesn't trust me AT ALL, and the funny thing is ... up until this point he had no reason to be suspicious of ANYTHING I was doing. I've been completely faithful. |
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Dec 4 2007, 01:32 PM
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QUOTE(brestar @ Dec 4 2007, 02:42 PM) I understand where you're coming from. I do love my boyfriend, but I'm not yet in love with him. I care about him, and I love for our relationship to work out but at the same time I feel like I can't be my WHOLE self around him. I'm sometimes walking on eggs shells to make sure and not say, or do the wrong thing just to avoid a petty argument. He doesn't trust me AT ALL, and the funny thing is ... up until this point he had no reason to be suspicious of ANYTHING I was doing. I've been completely faithful. That's not a healthy relationship, do you want to live like that for the rest of your life? What if you have kids, do you want them to feel the way you do? Like they have to walk on eggshells to avoid getting yelled at? |
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Dec 4 2007, 01:50 PM
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QUOTE(MissFits @ Dec 4 2007, 12:32 PM) That's not a healthy relationship, do you want to live like that for the rest of your life? What if you have kids, do you want them to feel the way you do? Like they have to walk on eggshells to avoid getting yelled at? Lol, oh gosh. I don't want you to think it's an abusive relationship or anything. I just hate arguing with him because he is so stubborn. It isn't healthy, but what do you suggest I should do? |
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brestar Am I cheating? Dec 4 2007, 11:52 AM
xDVSx hmmm... maybe in a way...
just don't get too ... Dec 4 2007, 11:54 AM
brestar QUOTE(xDVSx @ Dec 4 2007, 10:54 AM) hmmm.... Dec 4 2007, 11:58 AM MissFits If you can't tell your boyfriend and you have ... Dec 4 2007, 12:00 PM brestar QUOTE(MissFits @ Dec 4 2007, 11:00 AM) If... Dec 4 2007, 12:16 PM RyanWasHere Ever heard that one quote?
"Never leave the ... Dec 4 2007, 12:34 PM brestar QUOTE(RyanWasHere @ Dec 4 2007, 11:34 AM)... Dec 4 2007, 12:53 PM jeanna if you have to question your actions, something is... Dec 4 2007, 01:11 PM brestar QUOTE(jeanna @ Dec 4 2007, 12:11 PM) if y... Dec 4 2007, 01:29 PM MissFits If you can't be your whole self around him, th... Dec 4 2007, 01:57 PM Uronacid Alright,
It's one thing to "talk" ... Dec 4 2007, 02:15 PM Moderator Everyone has a little flirt in them, but its to an... Dec 4 2007, 08:24 PM RockItStudios yeah, just stop it right now. if you need that att... Dec 4 2007, 09:22 PM michelina~kudelka In my opinion, if you are trying to hide something... Dec 4 2007, 10:10 PM pureimaginationx23 If you feel guilty, can't tell your bf, sneaki... Dec 4 2007, 10:14 PM Insurmountable Just keep in mind, lust promises what it can't... Dec 6 2007, 10:55 AM |
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