Am I cheating? |
 Dec 4 2007, 11:52 AM
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My current boyfriend and I just moved in togehter about 3 months ago. We are living in a new area so we are both making new friends. I made a couple of friends at work, and I spend a lot of time at one of the girl's house. Now she is a little older than me, but she has a sister in law who is my age. Her sis in law hangs with a lot of guys, and there is a really handsome (slightly younger than me) guy who's "diggin' me." When I'm over at my friends house I'm always flirting with him, and when I'm at work I text him from her phone so my boyfriend doesn't find out. I'm not the type of chick to cheat, so am I headed down the wrong path?
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Dec 4 2007, 12:34 PM
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 RyanIsCoolerThanYou<3 Group: Member Posts: 514 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 525,502 |
Ever heard that one quote?
"Never leave the one you love for the one like, because the one you like will leave you for the one they love." Think about it. About the whole not getting the same attention thing...do you show him the same attention you once did? I wouldn't think so if your mind tends to wander into thoughts about this other guy. & yes, whether you want to believe it or not, you are cheating on him, if you don't have the heart to break it off, at least have the heart to make it obvious that your straying, I'm sure he'll catch on and break it off himself, I know I would. |
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Dec 4 2007, 12:53 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 17 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 596,977 |
QUOTE(RyanWasHere @ Dec 4 2007, 11:34 AM)  Ever heard that one quote? "Never leave the one you love for the one like, because the one you like will leave you for the one they love." Think about it. About the whole not getting the same attention thing...do you show him the same attention you once did? I wouldn't think so if your mind tends to wander into thoughts about this other guy. & yes, whether you want to believe it or not, you are cheating on him, if you don't have the heart to break it off, at least have the heart to make it obvious that your straying, I'm sure he'll catch on and break it off himself, I know I would. Contraty to belief I do show my boyfriend the same amount of attention, if not more than when we first started out. Flirting with this other guy doesn't take anything away from the feelings that I'll always have for my boyfriend. There is just a lack of attention from my man which I'm seeking. I'm not planning on leaving my boyfriend for another guy. Even if things with my boyfriend and I did dissolve I wouldn't be in any rush to get someone. I really haven't imagined myself with anyone else. |
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brestar Am I cheating? Dec 4 2007, 11:52 AM
xDVSx hmmm... maybe in a way...
just don't get too ... Dec 4 2007, 11:54 AM
brestar QUOTE(xDVSx @ Dec 4 2007, 10:54 AM) hmmm.... Dec 4 2007, 11:58 AM MissFits If you can't tell your boyfriend and you have ... Dec 4 2007, 12:00 PM brestar QUOTE(MissFits @ Dec 4 2007, 11:00 AM) If... Dec 4 2007, 12:16 PM MissFits It seems like your not happy.
I don't know you... Dec 4 2007, 12:28 PM brestar QUOTE(MissFits @ Dec 4 2007, 11:28 AM) It... Dec 4 2007, 12:42 PM MissFits QUOTE(brestar @ Dec 4 2007, 02:42 PM) I u... Dec 4 2007, 01:32 PM brestar QUOTE(MissFits @ Dec 4 2007, 12:32 PM) Th... Dec 4 2007, 01:50 PM jeanna if you have to question your actions, something is... Dec 4 2007, 01:11 PM brestar QUOTE(jeanna @ Dec 4 2007, 12:11 PM) if y... Dec 4 2007, 01:29 PM MissFits If you can't be your whole self around him, th... Dec 4 2007, 01:57 PM Uronacid Alright,
It's one thing to "talk" ... Dec 4 2007, 02:15 PM Moderator Everyone has a little flirt in them, but its to an... Dec 4 2007, 08:24 PM RockItStudios yeah, just stop it right now. if you need that att... Dec 4 2007, 09:22 PM michelina~kudelka In my opinion, if you are trying to hide something... Dec 4 2007, 10:10 PM pureimaginationx23 If you feel guilty, can't tell your bf, sneaki... Dec 4 2007, 10:14 PM Insurmountable Just keep in mind, lust promises what it can't... Dec 6 2007, 10:55 AM |
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