Am I cheating? Options

[brestar]

My current boyfriend and I just moved in togehter about 3 months ago. We are living in a new area so we are both making new friends. I made a couple of friends at work, and I spend a lot of time at one of the girl's house. Now she is a little older than me, but she has a sister in law who is my age. Her sis in law hangs with a lot of guys, and there is a really handsome (slightly younger than me) guy who's "diggin' me." When I'm over at my friends house I'm always flirting with him, and when I'm at work I text him from her phone so my boyfriend doesn't find out. I'm not the type of chick to cheat, so am I headed down the wrong path?

[MissFits]

If you can't tell your boyfriend and you have to ask if your are cheating, it's wrong. To me cheating is an emotional involvement with someone, whether or not you have sex is inconsequent.

You need to tell your boyfriend, or if it's easier just cut it off with your male caller. I'm just saying if your willing to do it now, would you be willing to do it in the future as well? Wouldn't you be heartbroken if you found out that your boyfriend had been doing this to you?

[brestar]

If you can't tell your boyfriend and you have to ask if your are cheating, it's wrong. To me cheating is an emotional involvement with someone, whether or not you have sex is inconsequent.

You need to tell your boyfriend, or if it's easier just cut it off with your male caller. I'm just saying if your willing to do it now, would you be willing to do it in the future as well? Wouldn't you be heartbroken if you found out that your boyfriend had been doing this to you?

Of course I would be hurt! It's already a fight to keep my boyfriend, with all the extra baggage he brung into our relationship. The thing is, my boyfriend talks to other females all the time even when he knows it bothers me. When it comes to me talking to other guys it's a BIG "no." He's a complete hypocrite.. and although I AM in the wrong, and what he's doing doesn't justify my actions... I'm enjoying the attention I've been getting. I know my limits, and when to cut this other guy off... unless it come to the point that my boyfriend and I aren't meant to be together. That's what I'm so torn about.