Your Limits on Relationships., Just plain circumstances. Options

[MissHygienic]

Other than saying that it varies or it depends on the guy/girl or that it's all about true love, what is a circumstance for a person that you wouldn't really see yourself being able to accept? Maybe because it's so different from yours. Such as being divorced and having kids, being poor, having a reputation as a cheater, being a vegan, whatever.

For me, I couldn't date someone who has been married and had kids with them, because that's sort of the bond that never goes away, so I can't handle seeing remaining pieces of his previous relationships in mine all of the time.

[misoshiru]

I don't think that I'd be able to date someone who's "heavily" religious. Being moderately religious might be fine, but I'm not sure. For me, many of my beliefs are very much against most mainstream religions, i.e. Christianty, Islam. To be with someone who will not support my beliefs, is unacceptable.




okay, to add a few more things.
- I am unable to even think of possibly dating someone who is not at...at least the same intellectual level as I am.
- I will not date someone who is not in college or has been to college. And a college of a certain level. I won't be able to date someone whose college they went to, I haven't heard of before in the sense that it was so bad that I haven't heard of it.
- If they don't have a sense of direction in life. I don't care if that direction will change, but if they have no dreams for themselves, it won't work out.
- If they can't stand the fact that I am a feminist.
- Someone who does not know how to dress.


This post has been edited by misoshiru: Dec 1 2007, 05:47 PM