When is it "too much"?, where is the line that can't be crossed? |
When is it "too much"?, where is the line that can't be crossed? |
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Newbie ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 588,382 ![]() |
I have been with my boyfriend for 11 months. today.
And even tho it was our aniversary, it was one of the worst ever day between us. we ddint even speak for like 10 minutes. I feel like he doesnt love me. because he has seriously just been acting like he doesnt care. It hurts soo bad.... but i dont want to give up. We've had some major problems with everything form his drugs, to {the worst heartache ever: } me having to wait for him to "decide" if he wanted to be with me, or wanted one of our other friends. He has stopped caring about me, stopped trying to hangout with me, he even cancelled plans with me yesturday, and broke one of his promises to me today. I haven't felt the same for him since the whole situation with our frind, and him wanting to be with her. but i still love him i dont know what to do honestly i strongly feel like its not worth it he isnt the best boyfriend. and i feel like he isnt worht all these tears i keep shedding should i end it? |
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 ![]() |
i guess im just dependent on him but i know if i end it, then i just gonna want him back again Dependence is definitely not the same thing as love. And that's a natural feeling for everyone to have after a breakup even if they are the one who did the breaking up. also, you think 10 minutes is horrible? try months. I think Selina meant that they talked for less than 10 minutes on their anniversary, not that there was a 10-minute silence. |
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