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 Nov 27 2007, 08:40 PM
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 BANG  Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 565,234  |
What if your in the scenario where you and your significant just got into a small argument about lying to each other but after awhile you guys agreed to stop lying.
Then he says I love you for the very first time in his life. But after agreeing not to lie, you can't really say I love you back because you don't. What would you say? What would you do? |
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Nov 28 2007, 09:11 AM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
Depends how long and intimate the relationship is.. Or how far it's progressed. Even if the significant other says "I love you", one does not know for sure how strong that "I love you" truly is. Numerous times have I heard people toss around those three little words, and it becomes meaningless shortly after.
If those meaningful words are not truly felt by you, then don't say it. Even if he means it or is lying. If you don't truly feel it, then don't say it. And I concur that the scenario does seem vague. Even if the significant other means what s/he says, there is no obligation to reciprocate. But once again, it depends on the circumstances. |
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Kay- 3 words. Nov 27 2007, 08:40 PM
MissHygienic Don't tell him that you love him if you don... Nov 27 2007, 08:48 PM S-Majere My boyfriend told me he loved me quite early on, b... Nov 28 2007, 12:51 PM jeanna i never really loved any of the guys who told me t... Nov 28 2007, 12:59 PM Uronacid ^No, you don't have to say it back. Nov 28 2007, 02:04 PM
jeanna QUOTE(Uronacid @ Nov 28 2007, 03:04 PM) ^... Nov 28 2007, 02:12 PM stephinika It really depends on the situation and the specifi... Nov 28 2007, 07:53 PM Moderator I guess you have to tell the truth. Think of this,... Nov 28 2007, 11:24 PM Synesthesia Don't say it back yet. Tell him the truth, whi... Nov 29 2007, 12:31 PM Sandraaa Be truthful to yourself. Don't say it because ... Nov 29 2007, 01:18 PM |
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