How important is LOOKS to you? Options

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All guys think looks are everything, if they say otherwise, maybe they're desperate, lmao!! Not sure about the girls, but i'm gonna say half and half of the girls think looks are everything and the other half think personality. The moral of the story is...

Guys=All about looks
Girls=All about feelings. But having good looks will give the boy the advantage against other guys.

what a prick.
maybe all dipshits think looks are everything. stop making such ignorant generalizations, will you?

and personally, i don't care about the question at the moment because i think my boyfriend tops all the scales on personality, looks, and talent.

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Either way, as far as looks and talent go, he's way down below. Maybe personality, but other then that, he's got nothing. How do i know...? Cuz I JUST DO!!

... WTF? How the hell do you know? Seriously, are you just pulling answers out of your ass again? Oh wait, when are you NOT pulling them out of your ass?

I don't care about her personality at all. Just spending time with me shows she's a good girl inside and can be changed, but being rude to other ppl and other crap don't bother me at all.

So if she's rude to your parents and your friends, then you don't care? And you'll lay down the law? Bitch please, the reason why you don't care about personality is because you just want a girl to show off to other people, and be like "oh I can get a girl who's above average" when really the girl is just dating you cause she might be on the rebound. And she might not even be above average to other people, only to you, and you might just be average looking as well.

We'll talk when i turn 50 .... ok? And no, most guys don't go after young girls with personality moron. I'm not going to details, that goes for you know nothing about boys/men. That's why you fall for all the stupid boys who want to get inside you, same with the rest of the girls. Then they go and say.. "Ahh i think this is LOVE.."

You don't even know what love is, so how can you say that. Same with the rest of the girls? Seriously, shut the fuck up with claiming that she's a slut. You say most guys don't go after young girls with personality - you know that may be true in SOME SENSE, but those relationships obviously don't last. So your rebuttal fails because if a relationship doesn't last, then it's not really considered much anyways, hence it's a weak rebuttal. And how can you assume that all the "stupid boys" want to get inside of her? You don't know anything about her to judge. As for love, like I said you probably don't know much about it, considering the replies you've been posting. I actually do know what love is, because I've been in a happy longterm relationship. Superficial-based relationships that ignore personalities tend to lead to break-ups, divorces, etc.

Uh huh.. ye.. that's why you see girls that get abused, the majority of them stay and not leave. Why.. Because they 1. They can't due to some financial problems. 2. Stupid, saying she loves the dumbass and shiet. 3. Just loves being abused but then go and bietches about it.

What are you, 5? OCCASIONALLY it might be due to financial problems. If it's because the girl is stupid, well she might see a good side to the guy and hope that she changes and she might still be clinging to the happy times that they had. Sometimes what they feel goes beyond physical conditions, and emotions take over. Yes, that may seem stupid, but it's because that girl cares about the guy so much. It's difficult. I know because my friend's friend stuck with a guy who physically abused her because she really cared about him, that she ignored his beatings. Yea it may seem stupid, but you haven't actually BEEN in such a relationship, so how can you judge? Dude, no one likes being abused. Except maybe dominatrix people, but that's a totally different story.

As for as looks go, yes i do consider myself 7-8 or just above average. Yes, the girl has to meet my expectations for me to even look at her, nothing more. I understand personality is important, don't get me wrong, i need somebody with a personality too, not an animated object. Looks go a long way. 2 people can then form each other's personality that they like once they spend enough time together.

Well, everyone rates others differently. I mean you might rate yourself a 7-8, but to someone else you might be a 5-6 *cough*, so then if you like a girl who you'd rate a 7-8, then that someone else might rate that girl a 5-6. That's if, hypothetically speaking, the girl is exactly compatible with you in terms of appearance rating.

*Throw a note that say... go to the girl's locker room and go read the thread "SLUT"*

What are you, like, 5?

nguoicasison, you haven't been here long enough to call Jeanna a slut.

You're probably the most shallow and immature person I've ever met. Shut up and "get on my level".
(That was in honor of you Tung.)

lmao But it only sounds good when Tung says it cause he always curses. It's cool though.

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[Just_Dream]

How do i know..? I just do. Most people on here or out there have decent looking partner, that's how i know. Most of them would go as far as showing their partner off in public. The guys are the ones who do it the most, like they're shiet. I just laugh inside when they walk by with their girl and their girl stares at me and then they stare at me with the cocky look.. I'm saying to myself".. Hahaha have fun showing off with that girl.."

Maybe it's where you live, but I don't know many people or even see many people that constantly show off who they're with. Different people have different perspectives.

Whoa whoa there.. Did i say anything about my girl being rude to my family members? I said to people in public.. Nuff said. Yes i will lay down the law if she goes overboard to the ppl in public. Most guys would show off their partner to their friends, but i'm completely opposite, because of what happened between 2 buddies of mine.

You said you didn't care about personality. You can't have one or the other. You can't say "oh she has a disgusting personality but I don't care" then take it back and say "Oh but I don't want her rude to people in public." What if she was a hottie (in your eyes) and she had a disgusting personality where she was rude to everyone? You'll lay down the law? Then she'll just leave you. Oh but then you'd be missing out because you'd lose someone compatible in looks with yourself. You did say "but being rude to other ppl and other crap don't bother me at all", right? Even if you supposively "lay down the law" the girl will think you're trying to change her, but really you shouldn't be trying to change her if that's how her personality is. If you do, then that means you do care about personality. And what about your two friends? If you want a girl who's compatible with you in appearance ONLY, don't you want her because you want to show off? It seems so from what you've replied. You're going to say "oh yea I don't care what other people think", but obviously you do when you take into consideration how others compliment you.

Hmm.. Telling you i've been in love is a hard thing to describe. I'm sure each of us has a different description of love. I was in love when i was 17, and it's something i don't want to be in EVER AGAIN!! Atleast not until i'm ready to settle down.

Yes each of us do have different descriptions of what love is, but you can't deny other people from thinking they are in love. But then again you don't even care about love. So really, even if the girl you dated was in love with someone else, you wouldn't care, as long as you're dating her and she's attractive in your eyes? Since you don't care about personality or don't want to be in love at all.

I don't think i called her a SLUT, i just said go to the "Slut" thread and read the things i said about girls. Maybe i should be more specific instead of saying going to slut thread. I should say.. Go to the "GoldDigger" thread? But too bad we don't have one.

And here you say to Jeanna "That's why you fall for all the stupid boys who want to get inside you, same with the rest of the girls." It seems you are implying that she's slutty, since the guys only date her to get inside of her. You might not have said it, but you implied it, strongly. And yes you should be more specific, otherwise people are going to take your words and twist them, and then you'll look like a dumbass.
12 types of girls - talks about stereotypes, mentions gold digger
Have You Ever Dated Someone Just For Money?
Obviously you didn't use the search form (correctly).

Nope! I don't rate myself differently than other ppl. I've been told by strangers and friends and girls. What other proof do i need? I will know when a girl is compatible in term of looks, not hard at all. I have eyes and so does she. If you want to hear an example.. O ye, i know when a girl is up to no good when she tries to do something such as have me as a rebound. I can see shiets like that a MILE AWAY.

You never know. Think about it. You only care about looks. Why should you care about her being on the rebound? How can you see it a mile away? What if you randomly met her and she said nothing about her ex-boyfriend and then you two dated? How the heck can you see that a mile away (figuratively)? Also, being on the rebound isn't necessarily a bad thing, either. As for not rating yourself differently.. lmao then you don't want to know what I'd rate you! And plus, why would your friend give you a bad rating? They probably don't want to hurt your feelings or don't have high expectations, if you know what I mean. If I gave you a really superficial rating, you wouldn't want to know. That's why I say different people will give you different ratings. If you ask someone who's hotter than you, they might give you a more superficial rating. Don't ask someone who is not as "attractive" as you, because they might rate you higher than others. And like I said, that's being really superficial, if you wanted to know.

Now even if he's joking or not, i'm pretty sure he meant what he said. If you would like to hear more examples, i'd be happy to list them down. I understand guys like me will be single for a longass time, but hey, it's the risk i'm willing to take.

I don't even rate myself as pretty/hot or any of that crap, but I do get comments. I get them often, yes. But I don't believe every one of them. I'm not the kind of person that gloats about being a 7-8 (thanks Sean ). I don't want to hear any more examples because I couldn't care less what some stranger (who's probably older than you) says to you. I could return your stories with mines, but that doesn't strengthen either of our arguments online now, does it?

Tung - He makes me ashamed to be Vietnamese.

Uronacid - yea I also think looks are important. I think we're all superficial in some sense, whether in current, past, or will be future relationships (future for the newbies who haven't had a boyfriend yet.. Yea you, Yanlin!) But this viet foo is saying that he doesn't care about personality, which sounds totally bogus.