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 Nov 22 2007, 03:47 PM
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okay i have a problem... i like two guys at the same time, one of them is my boyfriend, but at the same time i also like one of my guyfriends. I love my boyfriend to death,but everytime my guyfriend and i hangout/go on dates, both me and him(guyfriend) got more and more comfortable with each other and fall more and more for each other, but my guyfriend wasnt really sure if he really wants "us" to be well.. an "US" relationship... but he really really likes me though... and my boyfriend? well... yeah we both love each other really much, but theres only one problem... he lives in the different state from me. Now whenever me and my guyfriend are seen "together" everyone assumes that we're already boyfriend and girlfriend... and last night he said that he misses me, and that he would always think of me, and he would talk about me to his friends so much now... does that mean that we are in a relationship? should i just wait for him to ask me out? or should i just stay with my boyfriend? well.. correction make that "ex" for now i dont know what to do... anymore...
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Nov 22 2007, 10:25 PM
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I don't see how this should even be a problem. There is no "clearing" to do; you are committing an emotional affair, and this isn't fair to either party. Do yourself a favor and don't get involved in relationships if you feel this way.
You are asking strangers on a forum if you should break up with your boyfriend. The way I see it, if you were actually serious, it wouldn't such a quick, "yes" or "no" response amongst forum members. Let it go altogether. |
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Nov 26 2007, 12:09 PM
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 The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
QUOTE(MissHygienic @ Nov 22 2007, 10:25 PM)  I don't see how this should even be a problem. There is no "clearing" to do; you are committing an emotional affair, and this isn't fair to either party. Do yourself a favor and don't get involved in relationships if you feel this way. You are asking strangers on a forum if you should break up with your boyfriend. The way I see it, if you were actually serious, it wouldn't such a quick, "yes" or "no" response amongst forum members. Let it go altogether. Agreed. You are only going to do more harm than good. |
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Smilessss so in love with two... Nov 22 2007, 03:47 PM
Sandraaa Wtf? You have a boyfriend whom you claim to love y... Nov 22 2007, 03:53 PM Synesthesia QUOTE(Smilessss @ Nov 22 2007, 03:47 PM) ... Nov 22 2007, 03:54 PM superficial You aren't in a relationship with your guyfrie... Nov 22 2007, 03:54 PM MissFits You don't love either of them.
So, I think tha... Nov 22 2007, 09:44 PM RockItStudios there's a easy solution to this: you're no... Nov 22 2007, 10:59 PM Moderator I find it kinda hard to believe you're in love... Nov 22 2007, 11:03 PM Smilessss okay this situation is pretty much solved XD... lo... Nov 25 2007, 11:22 AM Sandraaa Good for you. Nov 25 2007, 01:04 PM Uronacid You know what, this happened to me once. It really... Nov 26 2007, 02:05 PM
reptilia QUOTE(Uronacid @ Nov 26 2007, 02:05 PM) Y... Nov 26 2007, 02:10 PM yaamakoh agreed, love is NOT a word you should use lightly.... Nov 26 2007, 10:02 PM me1issaaaa I second what he said up there, this is pretty off... Dec 2 2007, 10:17 AM |
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