I want to have a baby!! Options

[LianaIsTheShit]

i know i'm only 16 and it wouldn't be any time soon but like in the next few years, i totally want a baby! is that weird? of course i'll make sure it's with someone i love but i don't want to wait forever like until I'm making a million dollars, mean then i'd have to wait until i was like 30 and i want a baby soon. plus who actually waits until they are ready? doesn't it just happen? what do you think?

[Insurmountable]

I don't think shes a slut or stupid or whatever shes assuming, just I don't know if you know how big of a responsibility it is to have a child and manage life with a child.

Its a lot harder than you think.

My mom had my brother when I was *thinks* 13 and me and my sister pretty much took care of him the whole time while my mother sat on her ass and ordered us around about how to do things. It wasn't easy, it was very nerve racking, tons of headaches from crying and trying to get him settled. Also you just can't carry on life the same way, like you can't just go out and do the normal things you have to change the way you go out and do things and being prepared for anything that could happen.

[*jeanna*]

I don't think shes a slut or stupid or whatever shes assuming, just I don't know if you know how big of a responsibility it is to have a child and manage life with a child.

Its a lot harder than you think.

i'll call her out saying she's not very wise lol.

liana, trust me. i was by my friend's side during high school and you do not want to live that life. you won't care what anyone else says because you already have this dreamy unrealistic view on motherhood. become a mother to a stray dog or something you won't ruin your whole life on.