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[jenny1]

This guy asked me to be his girlfriend yesterday and i said yes to him but then i told him it has to be a secret relationship because i cant date and i dont want my dad to find out we were okay at first but then we didnt really talk to eachother yesterday and it was really awkward and today he didnt really talk to me and he didnt wait for me after class like he always do and flirt like we used to he also didnt talk to me that much and he was online on yahoo messager he would always talk to me there but this time he stayed for like 5 minutes and he signed off and i dont know whats going on what do you think about this? and does he still counts as my "boyfriend"?

[S-Majere]

^ That's me

18 months and staying a virgin. It's hard but ultimately up to the individual. No-one is going to have exactly the same beliefs or life-experiences as you are. You are in charge of your body and you have to live with the consquences - emotionally and physically - of having sex.

I'm well aware that my emotional maturity is a little above that of a frozen parsnip; but I do recognise in myself that I need to wait and that I am not ready.

But back to the question!

I think this guy is embarrassed at being kept a secret! How would you feel if your crush turned round and said the equivelent of 'I don't want to be seen with you'? Pretty rejected for sure.

If your unsure as to whether or not you're even dating someone; you shouldn't really be in that game. Yet. There's so much pressure to have a 'boyfriend' or a 'girlfriend' in school; but remember that having a relationship is more than being able to change that Myspace status.