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[runforestrun]

Hey there,

I have a problem and i'm hoping someone can help me; My almost-girlfriend and i were getting along greatly and everything went well after a social formal thing.

but i bumped into an a-hole at my school who started giving me shit saying shes a slut and that she screwed some guy.

this hurt me alot, for someone so innocent i didnt think it was possible, so i asked her on MSN (IM program)"was it true that you f**ked some guy?"

she replied with "i dont want to talk about that, especially on msn"

ever since then shes been withdrawn, whilst ive been ringing and talking to her for the past few days and everything seems fine...she never got back to answering the question...i felt so awful, if it was true i would want to know if it was before she took a liking to me or DURING it.

i dont know, this has been bugging me so much...i get these pains in my heart everynow and then, it seems everything is slowing down...

X

[transcendentalis...]

Hey there,

I have a problem and i'm hoping someone can help me; My almost-girlfriend and i were getting along greatly and everything went well after a social formal thing.

but i bumped into an a-hole at my school who started giving me shit saying shes a slut and that she screwed some guy.

this hurt me alot, for someone so innocent i didnt think it was possible, so i asked her on MSN (IM program)"was it true that you f**ked some guy?"

she replied with "i dont want to talk about that, especially on msn"

ever since then shes been withdrawn, whilst ive been ringing and talking to her for the past few days and everything seems fine...she never got back to answering the question...i felt so awful, if it was true i would want to know if it was before she took a liking to me or DURING it.

i dont know, this has been bugging me so much...i get these pains in my heart everynow and then, it seems everything is slowing down...

X

what is this, middle school?

do you really have to be such an inconsiderate bastard and just say, "was it true that you f**ked some guy?" not everyone is a naive, innocent shit; you're not in kindergarten. just because there's potential for a relationship between you two doesn't mean that there was never any potential with anyone else.

and hello, serious deep conversations about sex lives... over the internet? are you scared of her? if you liked her so much, you'd put more effort into making it easier for her to talk to you and know that you won't judge her instead of being such a prick about it.

the same thing happened to me, so don't even start soapboxing me about how "i don't know what it's like."=