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runforestrun
post Nov 16 2007, 08:04 AM
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Hey there,

I have a problem and i'm hoping someone can help me; My almost-girlfriend and i were getting along greatly and everything went well after a social formal thing.

but i bumped into an a-hole at my school who started giving me shit saying shes a slut and that she screwed some guy.

this hurt me alot, for someone so innocent i didnt think it was possible, so i asked her on MSN (IM program)"was it true that you f**ked some guy?"

she replied with "i dont want to talk about that, especially on msn"

ever since then shes been withdrawn, whilst ive been ringing and talking to her for the past few days and everything seems fine...she never got back to answering the question...i felt so awful, if it was true i would want to know if it was before she took a liking to me or DURING it.

i dont know, this has been bugging me so much...i get these pains in my heart everynow and then, it seems everything is slowing down...

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LoveToMySilas
post Nov 16 2007, 11:44 PM
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That's what she said.
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sad.gif I know how you must feel. It's happened to me before. The best way to get the answer from her is to catch her in person. A main part of a relationship is trust. People make mistakes, we all do. No ones perfect. So we have to find a way to accept these mistakes no matter what they may be. Just expect the unexpected but don't jump to conclusions either. It seems like its something that happened in the past. As Josh said, it probably has nothing to do with the way she feels for you now. Communication is key.
 

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