kissed a friend |
 Nov 15 2007, 09:41 AM
Post
#1
|
|
 Senior Member  Group: Member Posts: 336 Joined: Dec 2003 Member No: 152  |
i kissed a friend of mine about a month ago... now i'm starting to feel too attached when i shouldn't be.
the kiss turned into a heated "discussion" and it wasn't just once, it was maybe a few times. we still act as friends, and now it seems that i care about her more than i should. i was about to pop the question to engage into a relationship, but i'm still suffering from my last relationship that i had. i'm still debating whether this is going to work out, or will it be a failure like the other past relationships i had. i don't want to get into any more drama than i should, but at the same time this girl has something to her that keeps me interested. i'm not sure if i should wait, remain the same, or if i should start giving hints to start a relationship. also we playfully flirt like, "did you miss me?", "why didn't you call?" granted friends could say that to each other too, but now it seems like we are talking a bit more and more than before. |
|
|
|
 |
Replies
|
Nov 16 2007, 01:37 PM
Post
#2
|
|
|
Member Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 439,976 |
i dont ever think that there should be a time limit before you start to date someone else... if anyone else has said this before, sorry for being redundant. But if you feel that you really like her, then go ahead, its an opportunity and we as humans shouldn't give up on.
Thats sorta how my last one started... she was always there for me and i've liked her. then we had our first kiss, (it was lightly raining, at her house, in the garage looking at the sky and the stars...) we talked about it a few times and we tried to chalk it up as "in the heat of the moment thing" but the more I thought about it, the more i liked the idea... then it happened again, the kiss... we were both shocked and at the same time happy... we started to joke around, saying "i love you" and she'll reply, "yeah, yeah" and she would never say "i love you" back only "yeah, yeah" Something happened to me and i was down alot, and she was the one i talked to... one night, right before we got off the phone, I told her that i loved her, which I truly did, and this time, instead of "yeah, yeah," she replied back with "i love you" also... a couple of days later, we were together! hope all goes well and sorry about the long post... just shedding my 3 cents and my experiences! |
|
|
|
Posts in this topic
yaamakoh kissed a friend Nov 15 2007, 09:41 AM
S-Majere If it weren't for your having come out of a re... Nov 15 2007, 10:16 AM nothin Weren't you the guy who said you were at your ... Nov 16 2007, 08:54 AM toxicity584 If she is worth it then go for it. You must make s... Nov 16 2007, 12:06 PM Moderator Seems like you guys are just messing around. You... Nov 16 2007, 11:47 PM yaamakoh it is true that i like to be in relationships. as... Nov 17 2007, 06:50 PM rosemary27 QUOTE(yaamakoh @ Nov 15 2007, 09:41 AM) i... Nov 20 2007, 01:21 AM yaamakoh i'd rather be friends then break up later on i... Nov 20 2007, 04:23 PM Just_Dream I know we've talking about this before, but he... Nov 22 2007, 08:24 AM 2ndChance I think if you're honest with her how you feel... Nov 22 2007, 02:28 PM
stacygreen GO FOR THE GOLD! Nov 23 2007, 03:58 PM |
1 User(s) are reading this topic (1 Guests and 0 Anonymous Users)
0 Members: