"Slut"., hmmm Options

[vehvih]

Do they bother you?
Are you disgusted by them?
Have you been called one?
How do you DEFINE the word slut?


Yes, I am sexual active. And no, I do not call myself a slut. And yeah, I don't a boyfriend. And yeah, it bothers me whenever girls call each other slut.. the terminology 'slut' has been defined like, over and over again.. mainly for the purpose of keeping the damn fundamentals on how women should be.

Well basically, I want to point out using the terminology 'slut' downgrades women, you don't have to be a boy to downgrade women because if you believe so I would slap the fck out of you. And it bothers the hell out of me a girl can be called a slut if sexual active when she doesn't have a boyfriend, but it's ok for a boy to be so because he's a boy. I've three girl friends who have gone pregnant, and don't you even dare call them sluts, and they have been because of that.

Now here's the real question:

How do you suppose to call a girl a slut if you don't really know how they are sexually active?
Are you going to change the way you treat a girl if you believe she's a 'slut' when she doesn't have sex with you?
Are you going to let your own personal beliefs affect some other people when they have nothing to do with you?

DISCUSS!

This topic's purpose is to widen girls AND boys knowledge about women, and to stop sexism AND generalizations. I hope it works..

[Call911Quick]

First off, there are male versions of sluts.

Man-whores
Pedophiles
Frat Boys

A slut is defined as a girl who:

- talks/dresses preppy
- has an orgy on her sweet 16
- has not been in a relationship for more than 2 months
- ***deliberately reveals genitals in public***
- does drugs (ecstasy, mainly)
- visits a club every other day
- goes binging one night, wakes up the next morning naked (often)
- high school dropouts

Now, about the ***. Don't talk to me about "freedom of expression" and how a girl can dress. If a girl doesn't wear underwear, and wears white v-necks and a miniskirt around, she's intentionally showing off her breasts/crotch. She's sending out a message. Either it's "I'm hot and you can't have me," or "Come and get some, I'm not busy tonight."

Both are considered sluts, even though the former doesn't sleep around. She is taunting others, and challenging other girls. Both are looked down upon, except by the slut's male counterparts.

[MissFits]

A slut is defined as a girl who:

- talks/dresses preppy
- has an orgy on her sweet 16
- has not been in a relationship for more than 2 months
- ***deliberately reveals genitals in public***
- does drugs (ecstasy, mainly)
- visits a club every other day
- goes binging one night, wakes up the next morning naked (often)
- high school dropouts

Some of these things have NOTHING to do with being a slut. I've done ecstasy and plenty of other drugs but I have only had sex with two people. One of whom I dated for 3 years before we had sex, and the other one I am marrying. Being a High School dropout? Are you serious? I finished High School but I know plenty of people that didn't. Are they out hoein' it up? NO! They are going to get their GED. And, finally, just because someone dresses "preppy" doesn't mean they are a whore (although in my experience a lot of them are) It's not fair to judge ALL of the rich kids by the actions SOME of the rich kids take.

[StandardEdition]

Some of these things have NOTHING to do with being a slut. I've done ecstasy and plenty of other drugs but I have only had sex with two people. One of whom I dated for 3 years before we had sex, and the other one I am marrying. Being a High School dropout? Are you serious? I finished High School but I know plenty of people that didn't. Are they out hoein' it up? NO! They are going to get their GED. And, finally, just because someone dresses "preppy" doesn't mean they are a whore (although in my experience a lot of them are) It's not fair to judge ALL of the rich kids by the actions SOME of the rich kids take.

yeah thats profiling
or labeling rly

[*jeanna*]

yeah thats profiling
or labeling rly

who doesn't label someone when they are teens or something. everyone does.

[StandardEdition]

who doesn't label someone when they are teens or something. everyone does.

i kno im guilty.
But labeling is BAD MMK?

[*jeanna*]

i kno im guilty.
But labeling is BAD MMK?

doesnt mean no one does it, ever

"
- has not been in a relationship for more than 2 months"
damnnit lol