Would you get into a relationship, With a soldier going to Iraq?? Options

[*icecreamisyummy*]

So this guy ive been talking to has asked me to be his gf twice now. the first time i said no, because i hadn't seen him in a while. Now he jsut found out he'll be sent back to Iraq in about 2 weeks and asked to be my bf again...but in much serious terms. I really do like him and he really likes me. My best friend is against it and doesnt want me doing it because of the emotional impact it will cause.

now the other problem is, i just got otu of a serious relationship about a month or so ago. me and my ex still hang out* and what not. we both love one another, but we've had our issues and he said theres no chance between us now after what happened this past weekend. in a way i wanna believe him, but idk if he's being serious or not... i mean, he keeps showing up at my house he keeps calling.

so do i get into a relationship with someone who will be able to give me everythign and treat me how i should be treated, after he gets bck from iraq, or do i just sit around waiting for the guy i love to come to his senses?

of course theres more to all this but i dont want to bore you guys.

[icecreamisyummy]

i dont think i ever mentioned why me and the ex broke up. but hey thanks

me and the soldier decided on the phone last nite that it wouldnt be fair for the both of us. cuz like certain people said, i shouldnt be worried whether or not he's a live and he sholdnt be worried whether or not im f*cking with some other guy. we pretty much decided that june 1st we would email each other and see where we are in our lives, and if we happen to both be single and what not, we would try to have a relationship. june 1st because he should be back by then.

now the problem is.... we decided to go on cam, and well everything in the paragraph before just crumbled into nothing. and we're both back to wanting to be with each other. and we almost did decide to just get into the relationship, but i said... we should wait until i go visit him. so thats what we're gonna do, wait for me to go visit him and see how that goes.

i get to find out today when im goin over....hopefully!

EDIT//
thanks eddie, ill take your advice anytime lol