"Slut"., hmmm Options

[vehvih]

Do they bother you?
Are you disgusted by them?
Have you been called one?
How do you DEFINE the word slut?


Yes, I am sexual active. And no, I do not call myself a slut. And yeah, I don't a boyfriend. And yeah, it bothers me whenever girls call each other slut.. the terminology 'slut' has been defined like, over and over again.. mainly for the purpose of keeping the damn fundamentals on how women should be.

Well basically, I want to point out using the terminology 'slut' downgrades women, you don't have to be a boy to downgrade women because if you believe so I would slap the fck out of you. And it bothers the hell out of me a girl can be called a slut if sexual active when she doesn't have a boyfriend, but it's ok for a boy to be so because he's a boy. I've three girl friends who have gone pregnant, and don't you even dare call them sluts, and they have been because of that.

Now here's the real question:

How do you suppose to call a girl a slut if you don't really know how they are sexually active?
Are you going to change the way you treat a girl if you believe she's a 'slut' when she doesn't have sex with you?
Are you going to let your own personal beliefs affect some other people when they have nothing to do with you?

DISCUSS!

This topic's purpose is to widen girls AND boys knowledge about women, and to stop sexism AND generalizations. I hope it works..

[barbieeedollxo]

i define a slut as a girl who slepts around with alot of guys that she's not dating. i mean if you're dating the guy then i think its ok to sleep with them.
and yea i've been called a slut and i hate it.
and i normally don't call ppl sluts. i only call them one if they really are one.
like i know for sure they are then i will call them one.

[*jeanna*]

i define a slut as a girl who slepts around with alot of guys that she's not dating. i mean if you're dating the guy then i think its ok to sleep with them.
and yea i've been called a slut and i hate it.
and i normally don't call ppl sluts. i only call them one if they really are one.
like i know for sure they are then i will call them one.

yeah. like if a girl you don't even know is rubbing up on a guy and is plastered, don't go up to her and call her a slut. i don't do that anyways but if it happens ALL THE TIME, then yes.

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Maybe before you people die I hope you'd know the f**k I'm talking about.

That derogatory term is derivative from the thought of preserving the fundamental system of how woman supposedly should be. If they're not what they're supposed to be, then they're SLUTS. Hence SEXISM.

And if you don't know what the f**k I'm talking about, oh boy I'd love to punch you in the face."

oh please. that means you must be sleeping around or giving the impression to other people if you are completely guarded. who cares what other girls say then?

[icecreamisyummy]

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Maybe before you people die I hope you'd know the f**k I'm talking about.

That derogatory term is derivative from the thought of preserving the fundamental system of how woman supposedly should be. If they're not what they're supposed to be, then they're SLUTS. Hence SEXISM.

And if you don't know what the f**k I'm talking about, oh boy I'd love to punch you in the face."

oh please. that means you must be sleeping around or giving the impression to other people if you are completely guarded. who cares what other girls say then?

agree with her ^^ thats what its coming off as. but hey we dont know you, so we cant really say anything. good luck with that though